Is it bad I only want immediate family members when I give birth? Or while I'm still at the…

just hubby and sister in law during birth and immediate family after for me too

Yes! I only my bf and our moms during birth and immediate family after. No friends or anything. I just wanna bond @peanuts1mom

right and even then I don't know if I'll let any of them hold her except maybe my dad or mil 😂😂 like no she's mine

Lol right. I hope I don't b too selfish and stingy @peanuts1mom

nope! and don't feel bad to kick anyone out!

no one but my 2 best friends and my husband will be there. I want 0 family there. this is baby number 3, and the last 2 they have always caused drama of some sort... so they won't see this one until I'm home and READY for them to see him. I think what ever makes YOU comfortable is how it should be, and if they have an issue well they aren't the ones who gave birth and yea... lol but I'm kind of a bitch... lol

I think that will be me. I don't want a lot of ppl around soon as my baby come out the womb lol @mommybump2016

That makes sense this is baby #1 for me so I hadn't experience that get but if anyone does anything I don't like their gone. @ohsoawwsum

iv made a mistake about being too nice with family being there and getting on my nerves I had to tell the nurse no visitors for a while. but don't feel like you need to allow everyone in the room with you and baby. just have the nurses know your plan and they will follow through for you:)

yea @kaymonee just be strict and make sure you let everyone know what you expect, as a first time momma, you want family and friends support and all, but remember stand your ground...Mother's and MIL'S often are the worse and super pushy about what you should and shouldn't do... from my experience anyway lol advice is always welcomes but make sure it's what you want to actually do, just don't let anyone tell you how or what to do. if you do it makes being a parent soooo stressful, just stand your ground momma it's an amazing experience don't let anyone ruin it for you

Thank yu I will !

lol ikr @kaymonee

I have a list of select people who can visit me after birth, only my SO and my best friend during

I'm only having my boyfriend in the room during birth and I don't want anyone but his parents and my dad to visit while I'm in the hospital...