I don't want anyone to take this the way it is going to sound but as a single mom to be, how do you…

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Just get back into the dating scene. Plenty of good men out there. Just gotta find them. And be sure to tell them out right you have a child. If they are mature, they absolutely won't mind. After being in a relationship with the father of my first for 3years and then separating two years ago I didn't think I would be able to find someone. And I found the man of my dreams and I'm engaged and 18 weeks pregnant with number 2. And he loves my 4 year old daughter like his own. 😊😊

Yeah I'm just young, so it's not like I can't find someone my age willing to grow up.

And this is scary alone

honestly I'd say just concentrate on your baby and becoming the best mom you can be.. get educated so you can provide the best for your baby and live life.. God will dump the right man in your lap one day.. and if you get to the point where your successful and able to provide everything you and your child needs then worry about men.

you know my babys biological dad left. he was noy ready at all to be a father but i decided i wouldnt look anymore. i just did my thing and i was so lucky one day that a wonderful man came by. i tried so much chasing him away, being blunt with him, and being mean occasionally (all while pregnant), and he stuck around. he wanted to be apart of her life. he wanted to be apart of him. not to say to be mean to him but just be weary and be cautious and the right man will be more than patient with you and willing ti stay no matter what u throw at him.

My husband is the first an only man I dated after I had my first daughter. It just kind of happened because my thing was I wasn't going to talk to anyone until she was 18 Lol. But I met him when she 9-10 months. But it wasn't until we were dating for almost 4 months that he asked me why I never let him meet my daughter. The thought of introducing them never even crossed my mind because I didn't know where we stood. So after about a month or so he said how could he love me and not love her. It still took a min but eventually I let them meet and they have been inseparable ever since. Just take your time be up front and get to know them before you introduce them to the baby.