ok ladies i need ur opinions. so there's this guy well first am a single mom to a beautiful 6 almost 7 month baby,girl. this guy has been there since he found out I was prego he's not the father of my child. well he wanted to have a relationship with me and all I wasn't ready and I thought it was too soon. but lately I been feeling some type of way in a good way though. we saw each other the other day. we were cuddling now nothing happened OK we just cuddled. I asked him recently if he felt nasty or felt weird cuz I still have my baby fat. he said he doesn't mind. but idk if it's me or what but I feel so weird someone else touching my stomach. I feel fat. all he says to me is. u gotta get use to it. I don't mind ik it's ur baby,fat. what do u ladies think am I over thinking. is it to early to date? no rude comments
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girl give him a chance. :) my fiancé was like that, he was my best friend for 4 yrs though, he watched me go through a lot and my daughters father leaving. he stood up.
yup thats all that matters. I am still insecure but he helps me along the way. He is my rock. @vane359 I hope you get the same feeling with your SO :)
@aidens_mommy_cx, yes it's a little hard getting use to.as long as he loves u for who u r and doesn't want to change nada then that's all that,matters
@theirmommy_2, thanks girl like my mom says I,have to look out for me nd not care what other ppl,think
I was the same way with my boyfriend. He told me he loves me for who I am and doesnt think any less of me :) Im still getting used to it but ill get there @vane359
it isnt quick, you gave this guy time and now your ready, if your family talks bad about you just ignore it, you foubd yourself a good guy thats all that matters@vane359
@theirmommy_2, yea I was kinda scared on dating again. I mean it's bad enough my family talks bad about me. I don't want them to think of she has a bf that quick. u get me
Your fine on dating as long as you know he is going to be their for you and baby
@breenda21, yes it really does. I tell him that. I,appreciate what he does and knowing that's not his child. he asks how's my babygirl. all I care is for him to feel,comfortable with her. hopefully everything goes well
@vane359, exactly! I say go for it because he must really like you to want to have a relationship with you especially because you have a newborn baby practically . You see baby fathers leaving the baby's life and for a guy that isn't the biological father to want to step up. Then that shows a lot ! 😊
@mrs.reitzel, thank u am a try can't hurt to try. that's what I want someone who isn't afraid who's gonna be responsible and doesn't care if that's not his child as long as he treats her as if she was am good with,that
@breenda21, yes same thing I thought cuz no man want to take care of a baby that's not his
I met my now husband a week before I found out I was pregnant with my third. I found out in March and we started dating in June. The next June we got married and that February had our second daughter. Now coming up on 4 years of marriage and expecting our 3rd child. While my first is biologically his he always has claimed her as his. He's the best daddy to her. I say go for it.
that's cute although he want to be their for you and your daugther.
@amorasmom, he is. he says that's his baby I like that.
He's showing you that he really likes you. I mean most guys wouldn't want to have a relationship with a mommy.
I Dont think its too early If he makes you happy and is good with the baby then go for it
i say go for it not that many guys wanna be in a girl life that already have kids i think you found yourself a good guy that loves yu for you !