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Paige
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Paige
So, I'm new to this. I'm a mom to a four month old little girl. Her father and I are not together and haven't been since I was about three months pregnant. Before she was born I moved away(he wasn't that interested in the baby or that's how I felt). He started seeing someone who wanted to have a baby so he became interested. We moved back to the same area after she was born. They have tried to do everything to get her from me. So, me being a protective mother and there being no custody agreement have kept her so they can't just keep her. We are going through custody stuff but, I feel bad about keeping her from him. We moved back so he can be apart of her life and here I am keeping them apart. Not only that now because I've kept her I keep getting text messages everyday that make me feel even worse than I do. I just don't know what to do anymore.
09.01.2016
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jays.mommy1014
jays.mommy1014
I felt that way to. My son's father and I tried getting back together and he got back with the woman he left me for in the first place. Truthfully those feelings will go away. You just need to focus on your daughter and you. It will get better eventually! 😊
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momlife
momlife
Thank you guys! @jays.mommy1014 unfortunately he won't do that because everything somehow comes back to I just want him back which I don't I have an amazing man in my and my daughters life. And as for why I guess I feel bad is because he is a good dad. I just feel like he's doing it for the wrong reasons.
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jays.mommy1014
jays.mommy1014
Don't feel bad at all! I'm almost in the same situation you are. If you don't feel it's right for your daughter to be there with him then that's perfectly fine. If he wants to see her that badly then he could see her with you in the same room.
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nalahoney
nalahoney
if he's only interested because she wants your baby you have every right. a baby isn't a toy he can play with because the girl he's sleeping with wants to. stand your ground and protect your baby you aren't wrong and don't let him guilt you into feeling that way
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alainasmama
alainasmama
Do not feel bad mama!! If he didn't want her before then how could he want her more now? I would fight ruthlessly to get full custody of her if she was mine and then agree to let him see her once in a while if he wanted. Then when she gets older give her the option of asking to stay with him over night or something.
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jahnessagarcia
jahnessagarcia
if it took him to get in a relationship with another person to want to be in his daughters life is messed up. you don't need to feel bad you are doing what you think is best for your child.
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