Seeing your youngest sister throw her life away and somehow gain a false sense of entitlement is heartbreaking. I just don't get it.
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My sisters 18, just had her second kid she had her first at 14 & dropped out of school stays with the seconds baby's dad who spend all there money on weed & they bum off my mother who works 72 hours a week to keep her happy . I try buying the kids stuff & she doesn't use them cause I get them at the thrift store. She's hopeless & I've stopped talking to her unless necessary cause I'm afraid we're gonna get to the point where we don't talk ever again .
she got pregnant, dropped out. is living in a house with my other sister's EX BOYFRIEND, his best friend, his best friend's girlfriend, who also happens to be his ex, the guy's 4 year old daughter... at the guy's Mom's house and the only one with a job is his mom!!! My sister and I, are planning her a baby shower and she never got back to me with how many people we would invite so I never knew how many invitations to order, so I just made a fb event page and she took a screenshot of her registry where it shows how many gifts were bought and it's still showing 0 and posted it to the page!! I deleted it. This morning I saw where she had replied to a comment our mom had made about tattoos and she said, "after I have this baby, I'd like for you to treat me to another." She's being a materialistic douche and she isn't even going to be able to raise that baby! She's due Feb 13th!! oh and to top it off, said baby daddy has been texting one of her ex bff's and saying stuff like, "you know, I really do love you." and when confronted he says, "friends always tell each other they love each other." not in that context they don't!! but she stays!!! She's setting herself up for failure and heartbreak and all any of us can do, that actually do care about her, is sit back and watch it happen!
that's so sad! I see us going down that road, the not speaking one, that is. we don't speak much as it is. I have an 8 month old but found out she was pregnant 3 1/2 months ago. she hid it from EVERYONE. I was sure to save all the things I could from that point that were gender neutral. I have a boy and she's having a girl. She's getting all of the bigger items, such as a swing, rock and play, bassinet, auto bouncer, jumperoo etc. My gift to her is the shower because we're in a tough spot financially ourselves and can't do much.