Omg I know exactly what you mean but instead my husband says you have to excuse her she's pregnant, or he will say very pregnant today like I have different levels of pregnancy hormones or something I'm just like 'your a bleeping asshole sometimes'
Gaining weight shouldn't matter ever, but especially not when you're supporting human life with your body. There's no reason to judge how your body works. That's horrible. Remember it's just doing what it needs to to take care of your little one! 5lbs or 50lbs It's normal and it's okay!