I'm getting to a point where I just want to pack my bags and leave everyone behind. Just my angel and I. its so stressful living in this house with my in-laws. Always butting in when they don't need to and taking my place as a mom. Sometimes I don't even feel like I'm a mother because my mil is always up my a@# about the baby, always taking her from me when she's crying, like damn I'm her mother let ME soothe her. Its my job. Its getting so bad where my SO and I fight everyday. I told him I want to move out but he doesn't want to. I'm not a child anymore, I have a baby, a job that I'm getting money to save for an apartment, and I go to school. I get that they help me out but I can't stand being here anymore. too much stress. I want to feel free to do what I want as a person and not have to worry about what they think... I'm sorry for venting too much
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I want to snapped really bad but I guess I just have too much patience lol @liamsmommy1206
you can always over come it, but nothing is going to happen unless you speak up for yourself, i may only be 19 and im shy and very quiet as well as have some anxiety problems too but i learned real quick gotta put my big girl panties on and speak my mind or else they gonna walk all over me. @mommabear_1102 gotta do whats best for baby in the long run and if that means pissing a few people off then so be it. you know your child better than anyone else so i dont see why they do that, like i said i would already snapped lol
exactly... I swear his mom is something else. its not even his dad or anything its just her and I just want her off my back. I just wish I wasn't so shy and scared all the time. my anxiety kicks in when I start talking to her about it
everyone is different. we all do things different. and if he is getting mad at you because you want to take care of your child something is wrong. i understand family is always wanting to help and stuff but like you said youre momma its your job. and no one should be angry at you for wanting to soothe your own child. @mommabear_1102
its very hard to explain and there were times where I thought to myself and said fuck it but then I'd think again and say she's gunna put a face, ignore me, give me smart allic remarks and the whole house with be filled with negative feelings. I also will be dealing with my boyfriend that will get mad at me because I made her feel that way, we'll fight and I'd let her do it again. ik I shouldn't but I'd just rather avoid all that
no i dont but i do know that you gotta let the lady know who is in charge of the baby. i personally wouldnr care if i offended her or not lol if its my child im gonna be very assertive sometimes even a big butthole if i dont like something.
haha but you don't know his mom... she gets offended for everything @liamsmommy1206
im the same way except when it comes to kids and my baby lol i turn into a crazy overprotective momma bear real quick. idc who it is. ive almost fought my baby brothers mother over him and i grounded a grown man when he started a fight with someone while my brother was sleeping and since im usually not very loud or so scary myself he actually went to his room and stayed there til he left for work the next morning. i understand though but sometimes you gotta speak up, you dont have to be mean just politely say that you want to take care of YOUR child. and take the baby back from her @mommabear_1102
I'm a very shy person and its hard for me to speak my mind especially when I'm intimidated @liamsmommy1206
id let her know real fast like i want to be the one taking care of my baby. i dont care who got mad at me for saying it. I didnt like my own mother getting my son and soothing him when something was wrong, she didnt even do it often just every now and then, but i still couldnt stand it. thats just me though.
maybe, i dont have any patience when it comes to stuff like that @mommabear_1102