well guess my aunt yo solved the argument of who was going to buy the carseat/stroller... she bought it and didn't tell…

@wrd2016, that's a good idea where did you find yours at?... and my mom and I have never been close and she is in the military.. but since I became pregnant and my mom finally warmed up to it she has been trying alot harder to make things work again

well if the baby is going to be in the room with you and she's going to get you a swing, you could ask her to get one that turns into a bouncer too! that's what I'm dealing with lol so we have the crib with changing table and a 2 in 1 swing that turns into a bouncer so we can save as much room as possible and still be organized, but girl I don't know how you do it, live in a different state.. my mom is my best friend lol

@wrd2016, the crib has an changer on it.. but I think I've gotten her on the hunt for a swing so far.. and I think baby might end up in our room for the first year or so in the crib so a bassinet might be useless.. and unfortunately she lives in North Carolina and I live in texas.. @joceyyyy I'm not a huge co-sleeper only because I don't want to take the risk even with one set up by the bed but good idea..

If you want to sleep next to your baby at night maybe she can get you a cosleeper that attaches to your bed

swing,bassinet, bouncer? even if she just took you shopping for whatever you needed for the baby? or a changing table?

@abella1023, I got a hand me down swing but yeah I could use one more size appropriate for a newborn.. bassinet is a good idea too.. just didn't think I'd have a crib and a bassinet and a pack and play haha thanks for the ideas

Or bassinet 👍🏼

Swing!!!