my baby's father says he's been looking for a job for the past 8 months of the pregnancy and still has no job. my baby…

He needs to go to some temp agencies or something just to make some extra money to help out

I have the same issue. My thing is if I got to do it myself after the baby get here me and the baby don't need extra baggage 💯

You can love him all day long but what's the point of having him linger around. Love do not pay bills

if he can't support you and your cravings during your pregnancy then he don't need to be around after. that's my opinion. my husband said I don't need to work or get stressed during my pregnancy so I stay home with our son and do what ever. he goes to work and pays the bills. that's what a man is for.

McDonald's alwaya need people im just saying id dont take that long to get any job if u really want to take care of ur responsibilities

I told him that, get any job but he says he wants a "good job" but can't find a job. and this baby is coming and there's no income to provide for her until i go back to work! I do love him very much and I'm willing to struggle while we get our lives together but I think my daughter deserves better than to not have someone providing for her. I hate the stress but I feel like all I have been doing these past months is stress and cry because he's not doing what he has to do. @ashamalee85 @kelsey0803 @missmorton87 @preciousp

a job is a job. once he gets a job he can always keep looking for a better job. tell him that income is income and once the money is flowing he can look for that "good job"

I was living with my bf in Florida taking care of the both of us with my one check and going to school. I told him the same thing like Taco Bell right down the street. So since I couldn't get thou to him I'm now back at home with my mama, I'm 19 he came back to Chicago with me we just not together till he gets his shit together I love my bd dearly but you have to do what's best.

yeah, I know.. he wants to get married but how if he has no job and I mean I have a job but I'm currently on maternity leave and I can't provide for the 3 of us by myself!! and also thanks girls!!! really means the world to me!! @kelsey0803 @preciousp

that's what we are here for. girl do not let him give you the heart felt excuses. it's just a way to stay in your life. and have you take care of him. you need an MAN that will tell you, "you don't need to work I make enough to suppport you. but if you want to them that's fine. but you should stay home and take care of that beautiful baby."