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Jordan
Jordan

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I know hate is a strong word but does anyone else absolutely hate their low life piece of shit mother in law or am I just a horrible person so here is the situation first off she never really raised my boyfriend his grandmother did I mean she was there but not to raise him just to mooch off of her mother so we moved out about a year ago and she moved in with her boyfriend at the time and they we're good for about 6months then he moved away and left her note she hasn't had a job in 20 years isn't on disability or anything just living off everyone else she is also a drug addict and alcoholic so anyway we move I with her to help her out with bills the deal was we move in you get some sort of income and pay something well that never happened she didn't pay a dime to anything just drank all day and annoyed me at home on top of that she is a pig I mean I would wake up the next morning after cleaning all day and there is spaghetti dried to the floor and sandwiches left out over night the bread was hard nasty and she wondered why there we're roaches anyway we moved out back in November due to me being pregnant and me wanting to kill her plus the place was nasty and we needed the second bedroom everything has been great accept for the fact that she calls him and plays the pitty me game with him we went yo see his grandmother on Tuesday and never stopped to see his mom simply because he didn't want to so we didn't she calls pissed off because we didn't go see her sorry ass and she wants to say oh well your my son and didn't come see me what the fuck is wrong with you trying to make him feel bad so that pisses me off on top of that I call the electric company to see what my electric bill is and it's almost 400 dollars due to carry over bill from her that she was suppose to make her boyfriend now pay and never did so now we are stuck with that anyone else think I'm wrong for being pissed and really not wanting her involved in my sons life ever I mean she wasn't involved in her own sons life why would I let an unstable person anywhere near him or hold him as she falls asleep because she is drunk and high at 8 in the morning

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braxtonsmommy621

Jordan

that's where I am at with it like I said she can see him not holding or baby sitting and she has one chance and if she messes up it's on her I don't care how hurt she is lip one time or attitude because of anything and she's done

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xoxoanj

xoxoanj

and my SO completely agrees with it. I told him, I refuse to let her treat my child the way he was treated.

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xoxoanj

xoxoanj

I feel the same way toward my mother in law. ALTHOUGH in my situation, I have to be the bigger person, and let her have that relationship with my child, but I REFUSE to let my child stay the night at her house and I've told her, she has ONE time and ONE time only to mess up or even give me or her son lip, and I'll cut it short.

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braxtonsmommy621

Jordan

I am very nice when we are face to face but he knows my feelings about her so he tried to keep that to a minimum and I've tried talking to her like an adult and all she does is play a pity game about how I'm so mean to her and then talks to me like I'm a piece of shit for instance she saw my bump for the first time after it had showed up and she got nasty and disgusted then acted like I was faking it and told me I'm not woman enough to give natural birth which I'm doing so she's pretty much a bitch to me constantly and so when we are with her I just bite my lip and play nice that's kind of why I'm glad to have this app and you guys so I can vent without hurting anyone's feelings

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kimmieg9385

Kimberly

damn I feel bad for u , she sounds like she has some growing up to do , still respect her as she is ur mans mother , but that don't mean take her shit either , pray for her maybe one day she will change, try to talk to her like an adult , get on her good side , doesn't mean kiss her ass , but tell her how u feel

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braxtonsmommy621

Jordan

@nuggets_mommie, he agrees with me to an extent in the beginning I didn't want her around or anything not even really involved now I've gotten to the point with him that we agree she can see him no babysitting no holding nothing like that she can enjoy his presence for as long as I can stand her then we can leave he is starting to now see how she is and he is agreeing with me more so now with her involvement

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braxtonsmommy621

Jordan

I don't live with her now thank God but just even when she calls I get so mad and aggravated and it's not just because I'm pregnant I was like that long before I just don't see a point in having someone who isn't ever going to be there for him and when she is she drunk needless to say she will never be left alone or babysit him ever my parents will if need be and if she gets her feelings hurt oh well

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