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I know this may sound really bad but I'm going to ask it anyway because I feel bad: so I am 17 weeks pregnant I know I'm…

I know this may sound really bad but I'm going to ask it anyway because I feel bad: so I am 17 weeks pregnant I know I'm having a boy and I believe I have felt him move a little I was actively trying to conceive and we did and I was super happy about it but now I just feel like I don't have a good connection with him like I don't feel like I notice him much and I don't know I feel like I should be talking to him and doing all of this stuff so I'm wondering once I start feeling him more will I feel more of a connection or am I going to feel like this until he gets here :/

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sunflower_noemi

Noemí 🌻

I felt the same way ! I started to feel fluttering movements arounds 12 weeks and when I felt her kicks around 16 weeks I felt like I wanted to talk to her and my mom kept telling me to speak to her. I felt really bad cause I didn't feel the connection quiet their but my husband did. Until they told me it was a girl and felt the first hard movements around 24 weeks I couldn't get my hands off belly and talk to her. Now I'm crazy about it, it will take time don't pressure yourself (:

kristen17

Kristen Corona

В ожидании первенца

this is my first pregnant and I'm 17 to and im having a boy to and I feel the same any like I don't feel connected to him I try to talk to him but I just don't feel right or something I feel like im going to say something wrong or something so I just don't talk to him but he moves a lot

courtney6

courtney

Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего

you will feel more connected when u feel him more and when you see that baby for the 1st time u will fall head over heels, it's love at 1st sight, there's nothing stronger than a mother's love.

braxtonsmommy621

Jordan

thanks guys I really have just been feeling down about the whole thing and I'm starting to feel a little better

kaliyahsmommy

Kamiya

В ожидании первенца

things will get better when you start to feel him more for sure.. I wouldn't say I was disconnected but I pretty much forgot I was pregnant all the time..sometimes forgot my prenatals cause I didn't feel pregnant..well until the morning sickness kicks in lol..but you'll get better I'm sure

mommaof2boyys

Curly

Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (36 нед.)

Honestly with my first! I never felt that connection that I seen so many ppl talk about while pregnant! I never talked to my baby in my belly or nothing. But when I tell you I am head over heels for this little 6 year old! No one would ever know!

braxtonsmommy621

Jordan

I just feel horrible like I don't know it's just not like a connected feel almost and he is my first so that's the other reason I asked because I don't know I feel like I don't know anything :(

sparklez

Jazz

yes u will. I was like that with my 1st born after a while u will snapp out of it and start to feel more connected

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