I felt the same way ! I started to feel fluttering movements arounds 12 weeks and when I felt her kicks around 16 weeks I felt like I wanted to talk to her and my mom kept telling me to speak to her. I felt really bad cause I didn't feel the connection quiet their but my husband did. Until they told me it was a girl and felt the first hard movements around 24 weeks I couldn't get my hands off belly and talk to her. Now I'm crazy about it, it will take time don't pressure yourself (:

this is my first pregnant and I'm 17 to and im having a boy to and I feel the same any like I don't feel connected to him I try to talk to him but I just don't feel right or something I feel like im going to say something wrong or something so I just don't talk to him but he moves a lot

you will feel more connected when u feel him more and when you see that baby for the 1st time u will fall head over heels, it's love at 1st sight, there's nothing stronger than a mother's love.

thanks guys I really have just been feeling down about the whole thing and I'm starting to feel a little better

things will get better when you start to feel him more for sure.. I wouldn't say I was disconnected but I pretty much forgot I was pregnant all the time..sometimes forgot my prenatals cause I didn't feel pregnant..well until the morning sickness kicks in lol..but you'll get better I'm sure

Honestly with my first! I never felt that connection that I seen so many ppl talk about while pregnant! I never talked to my baby in my belly or nothing. But when I tell you I am head over heels for this little 6 year old! No one would ever know!

I just feel horrible like I don't know it's just not like a connected feel almost and he is my first so that's the other reason I asked because I don't know I feel like I don't know anything :(

yes u will. I was like that with my 1st born after a while u will snapp out of it and start to feel more connected