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Jessyca Mendez
Jessyca Mendez
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So I need help, initially my plan for labor is to go in and have my child naturally no epidural, but I know myself and I…

So I need help, initially my plan for labor is to go in and have my child naturally no epidural, but I know myself and I am really bad with pain and can't really take it I don't want the epidural cause I'm scared of that needle going in my back. I really don't know what to do I'm only 19 weeks but time flies and May 31 will be here soon so I really need to make up my mind

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missing402user

missing402userМногодетная мама (6 детей)

I am terrified of needles, but planned on having an epidural. then my platelets ended up being low and I couldn't have any needles put in me bc my blood wouldn't clot. So I ended up having to be put to sleep and have an emergency c section. Whatever the way your baby gets here, you won't care when your holding him/her in your arms :)

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jessycaloveslevi

Jessyca MendezВ ожидании первенца

thank u @lucylue yea I'm really considering just looking more into the nitrous oxide

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lucylue

lucylue

I had my baby girl natural due to me having low blood platelets during my high risk pregnancy.I was scared months before just thinking about the pain,but once I got to the hospital I was ready wanting to meet her no matter what.This pregnancy is much diffrent,but also going natural,first of all because I'm a BIG chicken for needles and 2nd if I did it once I can do it again,unless God has better plans,go with your gut!

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jessycaloveslevi

Jessyca MendezВ ожидании первенца

oh okay I'll totally look into it thanks @lastraisedqueen

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lastraisedqueen

Ana medinaВ ожидании первенца

my doctor told my it's the type of gas they put on you when you're at a dentist, it numbs you or something like that, she said it's better than epidural and a lot of girls are choosing it over the epidural. @jessmarlene26

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jessycaloveslevi

Jessyca MendezВ ожидании первенца

@lastraisedqueen, and what is ut ?

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kikobear1996

MichaelaВ ожидании первенца

You'll have some time to decide after you go into labor. I'm the exact same way, though. Horrified of pain but horrified of needles. I'm pretty sure, when the time comes, it'll be intense enough that I'll opt for the pain relief.

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jessycaloveslevi

Jessyca MendezВ ожидании первенца

yea I know I've been told @kirstenxoxo

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aphrodite2014

DanielleМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

don't beat yourself up about it but our bodies where made for this! the lasting effects that an epidural can cause for me personally aren't worth it at all!

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lastraisedqueen

Ana medinaВ ожидании первенца

you should look into nitrous oxide.. I told my doctor I don't want an epidural whatsoever, I don't want to deal with side affects years later, she told me about nitrous oxide

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theirmommy_3

JenniМама дочки-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)

Dont beat yourself up about it, just wait till your in the hospital and in pain and youll see if you get it or not

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kirsten2

KirstenМама сына-младенца

Obviously women can handle the natural thing BUT when i tell u contractions r the worst feeling u will ever feel in life!

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