Made the announcement on Facebook that nobody will be invited to the hospital when my daughter arrives because it will be mommy and daddy bonding time. my mother will be there during delivery and leave right after, she wont hold the baby or anything. and my fiances family (I don't get along with ) are making all kinds of rude comments and blowing up my fiancé phone. his dad even is threatening to not be around my daughter at all because of this decision. im beyond annoyed that they are taking this to the extreme and making it all about them.
tell them that you want to be able to establish breast feeding before being seen. if the women in his family don't get that then they are just being selfish
@callumsmocallus I agree I wont have hateful people at the hospital when I am trying to enjoy my newborn. @marieterrell92 I will also be breastfeeding and don't want everybody to see.
oh well they will just have to get over it! it's your choice at the end of the day tough cookie @excited_mommy2016 in our family whenever someone has a baby soon after the baby is here they all squash in to a little room 😭😭😭😂😂 I don't mind it much Lol
I wish I had done that with my first. its so much easier to have people visit when your home and settled. having people come to the hospital made breastfeeding more difficult until I got home.
@excited_mommy2016, that's how ours would, I'm terrified because his boss and then want to be up there but i really don't want anyone there but i don't want them to fire him@excited_mommy2016 doo you they aren't worth it If they'll be that hateful
@supermommy23, nope we had already talked to most of them about it they just decided to flip after I put it on Facebook.
thank you @callumsmommy I am not going to let them win on this. my entire family understands its just his family making it a big deal.
maybe there mad you voiced it via Facebook instead of calling or sitting them down to talk it out! Lol idk
I have a feeling this is what my fiancé's family could do or atleast resent me for it.. honestly it's what's best for baby it's not even for us. I'm going to see if my doctor will back me up some hospitals require that no visitors come for atleast the first hour for exactly that reason