Any advice would be great! husband and I moved to corpus for a new start. We definitely got one. We found out I was 2 weeks pregnant after about a month of being here. We share a house with his parents, sister, and niece. I'm honestly going crazy. I will buy food for me and him and wright on there do not eat, but they do anyways and never replace anything. If I try talking to them about anything they just seen to ignore me. I'm basically isolating myself in our room because I just feel like the black sheep. I'm really wanting to get out own place and they keep saying with a new baby you won't want to do that or I don't think y'all need to yet. it's driving me crazy. Any advice on what to do would be great!
I live just 20 minutes away from Corpus! And I agree with everyone else, just do what you can to save and get y'alls own place.. It will be much more relaxing for you and the baby not having to worry about other people
Also, my boyfriend wanted to stay living with his mom for a little while because of the extra help, but even though it was a little awkward I had to put my foot down and told him I refused to live in the same house as his mother anymore. Finally after explaining how important it was for the two of us to start out our lives with our baby girl without his family breathing down our necks, and how we could budget in order to make it work, as well as if I had to stay there I wouldn't be happy and would probably go insane haha, he finally understood and now we're on our own. Don't give up haha :)
Get your own place!! We lived with my mother in law for a little and it was horrible. It's so important for you to feel like you have control over your surroundings. Especially since you're going to be a mommy. If you guys can afford it, do it no matter what week you're at in pregnancy. Their opinion of it not being a good idea is so irrelevant. You can't listen to them.
get your own place if yall can afford it. Also get a mini fridge and start threatening to chop fingers off.
We want to get our own place. Before we moved here we had our own place and we did great, but now that we're here and our daughter will be here in just a few month's. It's killing me inside. I had to quit my old job because it because to stressful and I was about to lose our baby. I got the OK to go back to work so I start a new job on the 6th. They know my situation and are willing to work with me and my husband just got a new job. Hopefully everything will work out the way I would like it.