My mom spent all weekend cleaning the house and getting everything reorganized after finishing the kitchen remodel, my brother brings his friend over and the house is a mess again I feel horrible but I just don't have the energy to clean it all by myself I asked them to help and they wouldn't but I really don't want her to come home from work to the house like it is right now
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I don't care how people take selfies. Do what you want it's not killing me, ruining my day or none of my business. I don't care about The background either. It can be dirty or clean it's not my house. Just take care if your babies.
Clean house vs playing with your kids This is always a fun one. I often hear the excuse of "I would rather play with my kids then have a spotless house" as a reason for not having a clean house (and I don't mean clutter...I mean actually dirty). Personally I think that's a load of crap. I have quite a few kids who are disgusting pigs....but my house is always company ready and I don't spend all day cleaning in order to keep it looking nice and presentable. Granted I do have indentured servants in the form of children and a husband but even when my kids were babies it was never a difficult thing to accomplish. I spend roughly 1 hour a day cleaning and use the Motivated Moms app (which is awesome) and so have plenty of time to spend with my kids AND have a clean house. So, what's your opinion? Is it really 1 or the other? Or are people making excuses to justify their mess?
I may receive a lot of shit for this but here I go. I just saw a woman on Facebook complaining because she has to clean 2 rooms and take care of her kids and doesn't understand why her mother in law bitches about why it's not done everyday. Uhm okay. Let me tell you why. You don't anything. Your husband works all day while you sit at home and complain about working and cleaning TWO ROOMS and yet you want a HOUSE. As a stay at home mom and pregnant, supposed to be "taking it easy" I clean a room every day, with kids hanging off my legs. I make sure that the man that works 12+ hours a day has a hot meal, clean clothes and doesn't have to worry about coming home to a dirty house. Is my house spotless? Hell no. But it's not filthy. I do all the shopping, I cook three meals a day but there are days I say fuck it all. Am I super mom? No. Am I perfect? No. Do I always do what I say I'm going to that day? No but I make it a point to try. Am I expected to do it? No. No one expects super mom but they expect you to try instead of sitting on facebook 24/7 complaining. "I'm just so tired of being expected to be super mom and I'm not. My kids drive me crazy to the point i don't want anymore kids because they're a pain in the ass." That was her comment. Then stop having unprotected sex or try harder to prevent it. I tried giving you advice to make it easier but you'd rather make excuses of why you can't do it. I don't know if I'm wrong here or not but I don't expect my fiancé to work all day, every day for more than a week at a time and then come home and clean. I ask him to take out the trash and occasionally help me fold laundry. But I don't ask much else because he provides EVERYTHING.
We all have a different definition of “clean”🤢
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
Uhh men
Brandy Lemonds·
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I know ! They don't understand how important it is to keep the house clean , my little sister picked up most of the stuff for me but is still not clean oh well I'll tell my mom to make them clean it @foreveryoung247
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
There ya go ! It's so hard when your big and can't do what you want !
Brandy Lemonds·
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Oh my god yes !! Last night I pulled something in my ankle just trying to get to the bathroom to throw up .. At this point I'm so done with my body and its inability to suck it up for like 4-5 more weeks :) @foreveryoung247
Justina·
Мама двоих (4 года, 11 лет), ждёт третьего
It's hard so hard! @brandylemonds15 Mention couldn't do it! I know that much
Brandy Lemonds·
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Yes they act like they're dying if they have a stuffy nose ! I could only imagine if they had to carry a tiny human for 9 months how ridiculous they would act @foreveryoung247