So torn so after BIG fight with bf he calls and is actually nice to me but I haven't made it clear to him that I'm keeping the baby . I know once I say I'm not getting an abortion he's going to put me on block again and be mean and rude . But then on the other side I have my supportive mother who is so excited about being a first time grandma and wants me to keep it and deep down I want to have my baby . I've been through a abortion and it was so horrible. Idk what to do because the two main people I love are gunna be mad either way 😢😢😢😢😢
I won't I'm taking in everything your saying I'm going to keep my baby @missyowl92 @krstokes2016
Definitely don't have an abortion because a guy who treats you like crap wants you too. He helped make the baby but obviously he doesn't care. He's not worth it. You have your mom for support and that's what matters and you're lucky. My mom is there but barely supportive and I feel like I can't talk to her about anything and my MIL is just way too overbearing....
@mommyofastar25, i got away from him the day i lost them and am now with an amazing guy and waiting on my baby girl to get here in june. but i was with my ex for 3 years. the mean and rude can turn into much worse and no one deserves to go thru it. do whats best for you and baby no matter what just don't do something you're gonna regret and don't let him pressure you into something you don't wanna do
Thank you so much and I'm sorry you went through that @krstokes2016
the sperm donor of my twins (refuse to call him the dad) was the same way. from the time i found out and told him he said abortion and i refused. he ended up becoming violent and i lost them. if you ever need to talk just write me. i understand first hand the feeling.
Yea I know I guess I just want my baby to have a fighting chance . I didn't have a dad he didn't have a dad and now he's doing the same thing to my child but it's okay I have so many uncles and male cousins it's okay my bella91
just tell him honestly you want this baby even though he doesn't that you found happiness in this child and if he wants to block u and treat u like crap then okay , then u know where you and him stand. don't let him treat u that way he doesn't control u it takes two
Yea me and my mom are a lot closer now and I love it . I'm just dreading telling him I'm keeping it . I know he's gunna flip curse me out and back on the block list I go lol 😂😂😂 @tbella91
Me and my mom got closer and she spoils me because I'm carrying her grandchild so you're mom will do the same @mommyofastar25 I'm the youngest and only girl and its her first grandchild.its a special experience
Yea your absolutely right I just didn't think after everything we been through and everything I've done for he'd do this too me but I guess you don't see someone's true colors until things happen @happymommy1
Yea my mom too this is all she talks about and I'm her only child so she's extra excited @tbella91
@sweetmommy26 thank u. Kids are blessings they may be expensive lol but its worth it
you'll be okay hun because u have your mother.my mother took my baby fathers place pretty much @mommyofastar25 and that's all u need is love and support
Do what YOU want to do, not what's gonna make someone else happy. If you want to have your baby, then have your baby. If you don't, then don't. At the end of the day it's YOUR body and it's your life. There will be other men if this one doesn't come around. I promise you that. Don't let him influence you to do something you don't want to do.
that's the way to see it. I'm always here if u need to talk to anyone
@mommyofastar25 you wont regret it when u have your baby there all blessings this is my 3rd pregnancy with my 3rd girl & i am truly blessed nd re to meet her im only 28 days away from meeting the love of my life. Just really think about it god woulnt put nothing on you that u couldnt handle!
Thank you all for your support . I'm keeping the baby regardless and if he wants to be there he can @babyjamie16 @me_preggo @happymommy1 @tbella91
I know it hurts but if you have to abort your child just to keep him around he is not worth it Hun. At the end of the day it's what you want not him or your mom.
And at least you have your mother which is the greatest support ever! My mom passed away a year and a half ago, wish I had her with me, but I have my sister who is like a mother.. My husband is in the picture, but all I want to tell you is keep strong 😊
Yea I know I'm just waiting for him to be mean to me all over again @sweetmommy26
do what u feel fit I don't advise the abortion. he needs to stop being am ass to u. u didn't climb on top of your self and get pregnant. keep your little bundle of joy
I feel u my babies father pretty much didn't want this baby BUT my family has been my backbone.and u shouldn't have to be stuck between that.go with your heart and personally I would keep the baby its a blessing to have a second chance to conceive. and he shouldn't treat u that way
@mommyofastar25, Girl don't make a life decision bcuz of how some1 else is gona feel about it..you know how it feels to have an abortion and you said you want to keep it n your mom is supportive what's the problem?
Yes I agree with @happymommy1 please don't. Once you have your baby in your arms you will not regret it ❤️. This is my second pregnancy, my first wasn't meant to be, God had other plans.. But I have seen my sister and my sister in law and the way they talk about my nieces and nephew is so amazing, I can't wait to have that feeling. I know for sure it will be awesome. Love at first sight ❤️
I know I want to and I'm going to I'm just so scared of his reaction, he can be so mean and nasty to me it hurts but idk @happymommy1
Dont get no abortion a babys love is unconditional who even thinks about killing an innocent life. Your gonna regret it in the long run. Do whats right keep your lil one💜
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