so my baby daddy wants his two friends to be the baby's godparents but I don't know them and I've already picked out who I wanted to be her godparents any advice cuz he's bringing them by my house for me to meet them
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to hold the baby if it's not me or my husband? If they touch them I have them to sanitize their hands I do it to my kids also??
I am a middle aged white women who listen to rap music I enjoy music and love niggas but why do they just want to fuck me just because I have a big butt like omg I'm pregnant and they still want to fuck me sometimes I let them when im horny Cuz my bd stingy I'm just rambling.. should I tell my bd I like blacks instead of white men?
This is gonna be my first, but I want 2. :)
Been thinking a lot how do I tell my family I dont want them at the birth of my daughter they all assume they will be there and havent had the energy to argue with them about it but I really just want me and my babys father. wish my family would understand that.
Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital? I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out a baby?! I would like some private time for just my husband & I!
Angel·
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The baby can have 2 sets of god parents maybe if you like them .
brittany·
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it's just he's putting me in a uncomfortable position with trying to put strangers to me as my daughters godparents and I got told that she can only have one set of Godparents @aubreysmommy021016
Angel·
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Oh wow yeah have a huge talk with him about it and let him know how uncomfortable you feel
brittany·
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I am if he come over tonight he's bringing them over so I can meet them but I hope he knows just cuz I meet them once doesn't mean I'm going to like okay sure @aubreysmommy021016
Angel·
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Yeah true you need to meet them a couple times to actually okay them
brittany·
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yeah and I kinda feel he shouldn't have a say in it cuz of the fact he hasn't been here since I got pregnant and he's only been around three times twice at the hospital and once at my house @aubreysmommy021016
Sidika·
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wait so the daddy isn't around all the time?
brittany·
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nope @sreccles
Sidika·
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Then don't give him the satisfaction of him picking the god parents. if he isn't willing to fully be there for the baby, he shouldn't have a say in who is the godparents.
brittany·
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he was going to come over today and he just told me he has to take a rain check cut he's getting "sick" witch I freaking doubt cuz he has his friends over that were supposed to come with him and instead of me going out to eat with my dad I chose to stay home for his ass so he could come over he knew he wasn't going to come when he told me he was ugh why fucking lie @sreccles
Sidika·
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Then don't even allow him to see you guys. fight for custody. keep all messages of him saying he is coming over and him cancelling.
brittany·
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he has no right to her already I made sure of that and nothing ever gets deleted from my phone @sreccles
Angel·
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@brudd330, then he has no right to choose the god parents