to each his/her own

My mom was married and still ended up raising us alone... Some women look at preggie as exactly what it is a place to come and speak your mind, share experiences and knowledge, and talk how you're feeling for some comfort and support. Sometimes things happen and I give kudos and respect to the women that decided to keep their babies knowing they maybe going through this alone than running off to an abortion clinic... Maybe instead of judging you should lend out an ear and be supportive because clearly if these women are speaking on it they need it. At the end of the day pregnancy is an emotional roller coaster weather you're married or not and I'm all for being there for a woman weather she's married or not because trust me I've seen the most perfect man turn into a little shit while his wife was pregnant.

@mommatoobee, you're absolutely right like I told @mommylove320 I agree on certain statements she made I'm happy with my fiancé best friends six years together over a year with s baby otw

Thanks @dae I know... 😉😊

hahahaha @sev1226 kooky who found me!!

I've been with my fiancé for 7years, marriage is just a title and could mean youve only been together 3years and been married for 1, I personally couldn't be happier that were having a baby and I know we both will be great parents 😊 I agree though people should pick better father's to their children who really genuinely love them and are supportive, it makes life a lot easier plus you're doing it with your best friend

Pray on it it gets better try compromising me and mines were the same way now it's different @lilolove

@dae YUP... A have a nice bf n I love him with all my heart, sometimes he argue with me n push me away but I always try my best cuz I understand his fear since I got pregnant... He said that he didn't grow up with his father cuz he's in jail since he was 2 or 3 years n he never knew how is like to be one n he's just afraid that he's not gonna be the right one or a good one n he just sometimes leaves telling to just brake up with him n I said no cuz I believe on him n I know he can do better n that this baby will change his life for good... We have argue a lot but I still put cuz I know how he feel now my only fear of every day is that I get to the point that im gonna loose him but I have faith...

Agreed and they are doing the same.

This site is to say what you feel and im exercising that right @sexxymama83 I just don't agree with some of these ladies' choices when they could have been prevented, that's all.

@mommylove320, same as well with my fiancé I've talked to many mommies to be and listened to their stories so I understand where most are coming from

@dae, I agree. Being married doesn't always mean hubby will be 100. A baby changes a lot of people some for good some for bad. It forces you to see the world in a completely different way. Original poster I would say instead of saying those things that you said maybe you could offer encouragement to these ladies. I'm sure we all can relate on some level because no man is going to be who he started off as when you first met them and neither will you. So instead of putting them down when they are already feeling tore down offer them some useful advice or just let them vent.

@lilolove, I understand it happens to the best of people I analyze a lot before I respond on anything I feel her on the rant but I've notice a lot of people on here barely have family or are far away from theirs and they just wanna vent that's all

I see your point @dae so maybe I'm a lucky one lol I have an amazingly compassionate, caring, helpful husband that I know supports me and will help with baby when he/she arrives

Right!!! @dae 😔

But even when married you can't always count on your husband my relationship is perfectly fine I agree on certain things you're saying but also look at things happening today I've seen many young people of agendas getting married and proposed to and not lasting even past a year you can be with someone for so long and feel like you know them but once q baby is involve things change sometimes it's not always bad choices some guys or men have different ways of coping on being a father for the reason some are scared because they didn't fully have theirs in their life that can affect a person just seen a lot of it happening