Everything will b ok.... The less stress the better. This is my first and I was going nuts but I am realizing as a mother u child will never b without...u will make a way. There is always a way...👌🏽👌🏽

I agree. thank you @disa_nicole that was very sweet of you

I think that's my problem too. I'm over thinking it. I have a child already but when she was born my situation was horrible. literally I had people giving me stuff the day of her birth. now it's so much better. but I just wish my family could help. they think because my husband has himself established that means I'm set. not true at all. they don't know what simple things mean.

At most u need a car seat for sure and an outfit for him to have on when he leaves the hospital (everything else u can send your mate to get after he is here if u don't get everything) bassinet maybe for the time being Bc u will probably be sleeping with him for the first few weeks...don't stress love these last weeks u get this moment of "oh shit" and u will get everything u need.

I'm not having a shower either soo I had started recently to get things in order as a new year resolution.....

I just started shopping for my boy and my crib I am buying from someone and they are on vacation until the end of January so I just have to work around it 😩 until she returns....a lot of my friends said they didn't have most things until the week they delivered or like a week before. Don't be too nervous. He will have what he needs....I'm debating car seats Bc I feel like they are not safe enough all the ones I have seen and it sucks....I feel like an over thinker about all the stuff I need for him...

I'm having a boy. If he was a she I would be set.

Or

Are you having a boy it girl ?

my family lives far away so no. I made a registry. hopefully I can get some things work out within the next 2 weeks.

Are you having a baby shower??

it is very scary.

Damn that has to be scary