a little rant. my husband goes to take a shower i keep his four year old in front of house (we only have one shower connected by two bathrooms) any who I keep her up there watching cartoons so he has uninterrupted time. I go to take a shower she comes in the bathroom pottys flushes the toilet leaves comes back blows her nose flushes again. makes the water all different temps. then I get out and she's in our room. like Cmon let me have a few minutes to shower. it's already a difficult task being 35 weeks with twins. :(
@shannaa24, that's a fact. I was medically taken out of work at 28 weeks due to preterm labor. so my husband doesn't have a choice. I'm gonna try and find an at home job because putting twins in daycare won't be cheap and i don't want to work just to afford daycare just wouldn't seem worth it.
he doesn't even want me to take 6-12/weeks. I don't think he really understands, he thinks more about money, then me resting, or learning my twins. same shit with my son. I had to work up until my last week. I was so tired and it pain. I needed rest. definitely didn't get to spend much time with my son as a baby. and with his paychecks, he could definitely afford the bills. just wants more money. I can understand his part. just wish he could understand me as a pregnant woman. and that it's not all too easy. and babies do drain you.
yea. I definitely feel you on that. I wonder how I'm gonna get anything done. that consist of me going out of the house with a 4 year old and two babies. my husband will be working most of the time during spring and summer and working late. sometimes goes out of town. hopefully someone will help me out with grocery shopping. I'm keeping my son home for the summer, while I'm on my 12 week leave, I do work at home on the computer doing title work. so when I go back he'll go back to school, and I'll have to watch two babies here while I work. my husband wouldn't let me not work. also can't really afford not to work. with them being babies it should be so bad, but once they start crawling idk what to do. my sister in law is thinking about quitting her job to stay home with her 2 year old. said she wants to watch the twins. that would be a big help. idk if I could afford child care for all 3/ kids. I told my husband if I was having triplets, I'm sorry but no I wouldn't be working lol.
@shannaa24, she's good but she's all about step mommy and wants to be where I am. but sometimes I just want a shower alone. lol or to get dressed alone. cause once these babies come I know i won't get any alone time for a while. :P
lol yea I'm pretty used to this. but thankfully telling my son to close the door he's pretty nice about it. I'm in an apartment so everything is pretty close. he sits in the living room watching tv, while I shower, I crack the door a bit. he's pretty good, he don't get into anything. when he was a baby, showing was pretty hard during the times he was crawling or started walking. I just put him in his walker in the bathroom, with me.
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no its not worth it. you can always try different real estate title companies. there starting to have more and more people work at home. I'm sure there's other companies out there as well. @cdgfreeman