Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My doctor also recommended me getting the flu shot while pregnant ? I'm not sure if I want to or if i should ? It's all scary to me !! What do you ladies think ? Did you get the flu shot while pregnant ? Are there any risks? Or should I wait ? I'm so scared of taking anything while pregnant , much less getting this shot.. He said it isn't mandatory , just recommended.
Anyone elses husband a perv? Lol. I cant do anything around him 😒I'm bending over putting groceries away...here he come behind me pulling down my pants, I'm taking the laundry out..there he is. I was on my knees getting something from under the bed..get up to my face lookin at🍆 😣😭😂😂😂😂😂😑🙄
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls his eyes and gets butt hurt like wtf. You promised me these things I didn't make you and it makes me mad when you don't want to honor your word and then demand that I do it instead of at least asking me if I could. I feed my son his breakfast and now I'm eating mine in the kitchen because I'm just so irritated.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Blanca·
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You're welcome hang in there. I'm hoping nothing but the best for you to get through this.
Clarissa·
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Yes my son does the same if he crys a lot and thanks guys definitely going to have a talk with him bc this is miserable I love my son to death and love taking care of him but I need my health to be good to and he needs his father in his life but thank y'all so much for all the help 😀
Blanca·
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My son had colic also and it was definitely hard since you can't do much. I didn't buy gripe water for colic it helped.Definitely talk to him he has to show interest in his son and if he doesn't care you don't need that. There is only so much you can do you can't be the only one doing all the work. I don't let my son cry like that either if not he will start to choke on his saliva.
Clarissa·
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Yes my son has gas promblems I'm going to try and talk to him and yes it's his first kid I try and explain to him on what to do so I can teach him so he can handle him but he could care less he says it's good from them to cry but it is but to the point he shouldn't be screaming on top of his lungs and yes he was born November 15
Kendra Lamoureux·
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you said your son is almost two months correct? if he's fussy all day he may have problems with colic or gas you should definitely mention it to his doctor and the situation with your man talk with him let him know how you're feeling and calmly let him know you would like time to eat and shower explain to him how things are if this is his first baby he may not understand what to do sometimes it's not always them trying to be mean sometimes they will just be unsure of how to take care of a little one my hubby was in the beginning as well. btw was your son born Nov 15th?
Blanca·
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then you know he's not if he's only changing because you're saying it for a day then going back to his ways. you deserve to be treated better than what he's doing to you.
Clarissa·
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I have told him I'm taking him and leavening and he will change for a day then be back to normal
Hailey Childers·
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this is my husband! we fight and fight and fight and today I told him that I'm taking my son and leaving and his mood changed real quick
Blanca·
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then I don't see why he would say that when he has done nothing. I know how you're feeling but don't let it get to you. he can't take your baby from you don't be afraid. if you're not happy then don't force yourself to stay over his words. men change and show their true colors when you have a baby with them.
Clarissa·
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And he all the time tell me to go to my moms to just leave but then will take my car seat or tell me not to take the baby or his stuff
Clarissa·
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He bought him stuff but he never takes care of him 😢
Blanca·
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then you can go for getting full custody of your son. if he doesn't know how to take care of him or bought him anything you can use that against him. especially if he works he won't be able to take care of him either.
Clarissa·
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Oh I know but I don't want him getting any kind of joint custody if I did leave him bc he really can't handle him my son will be two months old on the 15 and he has not changed one diaper he maybe has feed him 5 or 6 times
Blanca·
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Dont let him get to you like that. He can't legally take him from you like that. All men use that to scare us in to staying with them. He's not showing he cares at all and you don't deserve that.