So this is killing....When My boyfriend found out I was pregnant he said couple of days after that he didn't want to be in the hospital when I give birth and now all of a sudden after all that we have been through he said that he want to be the only one in the room when I'm giving birth n cut the umbilical cord after all I had to plan without him, now he's saying that if he's not gonna be the only one there in that moment that he's gonna leave me n keep going with his life without me n give me full costudy of my child so he don't have to pay no child support... After all I never dependended on him for nothing of the baby or me... This relationship is being beyond n he want to take control of me n wants me to do everything he wants... What should I do? He's to different right now... Idk what or who is he no more... N he don't even trust me or nobody...
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Yes I know but I don't even care bout his money, I care my son and health being... @mommysweigart
not unless he gives up hes parental rights then he doesnt have to pay shit
Thanks a lot... Idk what to do.. Even I know inside of me that I don't need him... In my heart I know he thinks the baby is not his baby n he always compare me with his other last relationships n he did confessed today that he feels like he is in his last relationship like with other girl he had before me n I'm honestly don't want to keep going like this cuz he says he loves me but something tells me he don't n he don't even care bout his child... I feel this is only a game his playing but what kind of game? I can't believe he's playing with the live of his child n he even said he regrets that I'm pregnant even know it's our his fault cuz he didn't wanted to use protection... I don't regret having this child cuz I know God give this blessing to me for a reason I just didn't know I need to suffer all this...
Men say these things out of stupidity honestly sorry to say mine said so many things when I was pregnant my first time like he wasn't gonna help this that blah blah and when I lost that baby he felt so bad and he wouldn't let her go especially because he wanted a girl I lost her a couple days after I found out the gender with this pregnancy he talks about all he will do now that we have a shot again with a girl they do it to be silly once the baby comes they love it ... I mean some
I don't know if you are a ftm but I know my last pregnancy I just wanted support with me I didn't care about pleasing any one.
personally, I'd choose my family or friends that have supported me throughout my pregnancy.
And I always say don't ever allow man to tell you he don't want you more than once.
Honestly you sound better off without him ... He's being a child not a man that you / and the baby need . That's my opinion . Good luck
No matter if he sign his rights away he'll still have to pay child support . That's still his child. Girl don't stress maybe he'll find his way when the baby is born
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so my mom was telling me I should give my son baby cereal at night because at night is when he wants to eat the most. I haven't done it yet but who thinks its okay I was thinking doing it when he's two months!??
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds harsh, but my husband stayed at the hospital during my stay when I had our son and he drove me crazy bc all he did was complain. Now he tells me (2 days before my csection) that he's going to stay and I don't want him to.
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
honestly tell him bye! let Him sign the papers .... you and your child do not need someone who can't make a major decision!