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Lynoshka
Lynoshka
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So this is killing....When My boyfriend found out I was pregnant he said couple of days after that he didn't want to be…

So this is killing....When My boyfriend found out I was pregnant he said couple of days after that he didn't want to be in the hospital when I give birth and now all of a sudden after all that we have been through he said that he want to be the only one in the room when I'm giving birth n cut the umbilical cord after all I had to plan without him, now he's saying that if he's not gonna be the only one there in that moment that he's gonna leave me n keep going with his life without me n give me full costudy of my child so he don't have to pay no child support... After all I never dependended on him for nothing of the baby or me... This relationship is being beyond n he want to take control of me n wants me to do everything he wants... What should I do? He's to different right now... Idk what or who is he no more... N he don't even trust me or nobody...

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b4mandi

b4mandi

Мама четверых детей

honestly tell him bye! let Him sign the papers .... you and your child do not need someone who can't make a major decision!

lilolove

Lynoshka

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Yes I know but I don't even care bout his money, I care my son and health being... @mommysweigart

mommysweigart

Megan Sweigart

Мама сына-младенца

not unless he gives up hes parental rights then he doesnt have to pay shit

lilolove

Lynoshka

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Thanks...

babyborji

Logan

if paternity is proven he has to pay support. period.

lilolove

Lynoshka

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The bad thing is that I still love him Idk why

lilolove

Lynoshka

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Thanks a lot... Idk what to do.. Even I know inside of me that I don't need him... In my heart I know he thinks the baby is not his baby n he always compare me with his other last relationships n he did confessed today that he feels like he is in his last relationship like with other girl he had before me n I'm honestly don't want to keep going like this cuz he says he loves me but something tells me he don't n he don't even care bout his child... I feel this is only a game his playing but what kind of game? I can't believe he's playing with the live of his child n he even said he regrets that I'm pregnant even know it's our his fault cuz he didn't wanted to use protection... I don't regret having this child cuz I know God give this blessing to me for a reason I just didn't know I need to suffer all this...

mimimommyof2

Mimi

Мама дочки-младенца

Men say these things out of stupidity honestly sorry to say mine said so many things when I was pregnant my first time like he wasn't gonna help this that blah blah and when I lost that baby he felt so bad and he wouldn't let her go especially because he wanted a girl I lost her a couple days after I found out the gender with this pregnancy he talks about all he will do now that we have a shot again with a girl they do it to be silly once the baby comes they love it ... I mean some

gadgesmama

Alyssa

I don't know if you are a ftm but I know my last pregnancy I just wanted support with me I didn't care about pleasing any one.

gadgesmama

Alyssa

personally, I'd choose my family or friends that have supported me throughout my pregnancy.

missing59user

missing59user

And I always say don't ever allow man to tell you he don't want you more than once.

blessing2016

Tamara

Honestly you sound better off without him ... He's being a child not a man that you / and the baby need . That's my opinion . Good luck

missing59user

missing59user

No matter if he sign his rights away he'll still have to pay child support . That's still his child. Girl don't stress maybe he'll find his way when the baby is born

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