So this is killing....When My boyfriend found out I was pregnant he said couple of days after that he didn't want to be in the hospital when I give birth and now all of a sudden after all that we have been through he said that he want to be the only one in the room when I'm giving birth n cut the umbilical cord after all I had to plan without him, now he's saying that if he's not gonna be the only one there in that moment that he's gonna leave me n keep going with his life without me n give me full costudy of my child so he don't have to pay no child support... After all I never dependended on him for nothing of the baby or me... This relationship is being beyond n he want to take control of me n wants me to do everything he wants... What should I do? He's to different right now... Idk what or who is he no more... N he don't even trust me or nobody...
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Yes I know but I don't even care bout his money, I care my son and health being... @mommysweigart
not unless he gives up hes parental rights then he doesnt have to pay shit
The bad thing is that I still love him Idk why
Thanks a lot... Idk what to do.. Even I know inside of me that I don't need him... In my heart I know he thinks the baby is not his baby n he always compare me with his other last relationships n he did confessed today that he feels like he is in his last relationship like with other girl he had before me n I'm honestly don't want to keep going like this cuz he says he loves me but something tells me he don't n he don't even care bout his child... I feel this is only a game his playing but what kind of game? I can't believe he's playing with the live of his child n he even said he regrets that I'm pregnant even know it's our his fault cuz he didn't wanted to use protection... I don't regret having this child cuz I know God give this blessing to me for a reason I just didn't know I need to suffer all this...
Men say these things out of stupidity honestly sorry to say mine said so many things when I was pregnant my first time like he wasn't gonna help this that blah blah and when I lost that baby he felt so bad and he wouldn't let her go especially because he wanted a girl I lost her a couple days after I found out the gender with this pregnancy he talks about all he will do now that we have a shot again with a girl they do it to be silly once the baby comes they love it ... I mean some
I don't know if you are a ftm but I know my last pregnancy I just wanted support with me I didn't care about pleasing any one.
personally, I'd choose my family or friends that have supported me throughout my pregnancy.
And I always say don't ever allow man to tell you he don't want you more than once.
Honestly you sound better off without him ... He's being a child not a man that you / and the baby need . That's my opinion . Good luck
No matter if he sign his rights away he'll still have to pay child support . That's still his child. Girl don't stress maybe he'll find his way when the baby is born
honestly tell him bye! let Him sign the papers .... you and your child do not need someone who can't make a major decision!