okay ladies i need some help and advice. ive been to two appointments and the doctors have promised ultrasounds for both…

okay ladies i need some help and advice.

ive been to two appointments and the doctors have promised ultrasounds for both but i still havent gotten one done. ive had one eptoic pregnancy and one where development stopped and my body dissolved the baby back in. im now on my third pregnancy and sith my fiance taking a new job where he leaves town for weeks at a time my aniexty is getting worst to the point any amount of stress can cause spotting to the point im laying in bed till it stops. my mom keeps saying i should go to the er and complain of cramping to get an ultrasound down to hopeful ease my mind so ill be able to relax without the stress and fear of having a blighted ovum. but i feel like going to the er would be wrong.