So if you have a 6 year old brother and he bites your almost 2 month old in the hand really hard enough for it to turn blue what would u do? I just want to see what other mommies would do so I know what your opinions are. This happened not even 2 weeks ago.
She's your baby... my mom & sister keep making excuses but there's are somethings that I just won't let slide.
well I know he has ADHD but I'm not quite sure about anything else @mah_mammi and I want to keep him away from her but then again my mom keeps on giving and giving me attitude @harmsmom9915
I won't even let my niece around my daughter because she likes to pick her nose & does not like to wash her hands... if she physically hurt my daughter she would never see my baby again at least until she's like 10+ (she's 3 now)
I think there might be a mental development issue if he still bites and stuff. I know that sounds kind of bad but it could be a possibility
I don't know...he even bit me the other day. He doesn't act his age. I should be able to leave my daughter in a room by herself while she's sleeping and not have to worry about my brother coming in and hitting her or waking her up or biting her or trying to pick her up by herself. My mom's friends kids that's around my brothers age act more responsible then my brother...all 3 of them! 7, 4 and 6. Even the 4 year old knows not to bite her! That's bad right there. @mah_mammi
I'll be honest I would have whooped my brothers ass. that is just unacceptable, why is a 6 year old still biting?
Thanks. And it will get better eventually. Not anytime soon.. :/ @ace.n.avas.mommy
poor baby 😿😿😿😿 I hope it gets better mama. ur mom definitely needs to stay on top of him, that behavior is unacceptable. he needs to know its not okay. good luck!
I'm still pissed at him! @ace.n.avas.mommy u should've seen her hand and how swollen it was...
Ok that sounds like a good idea. And the grounding from everything of something's won't work....because my mom was letting him do whatever he wanted the next day as if nothing happened. How is he supposed to learn if to not do that when he is getting all his free time...and ok. @unbecomingme
Explain that biting hurts, and if he cannot be kind, he doesn't get to be near you or the baby. If he does it again, or acts like he is going to, remove yourself, or him, and repeat that biting hurts and is unkind and he doesn't get to hang out/play/whatever because he bit.
I wouldn't leave him alone with her, but I see no reason why he can't be around her with an adult or teen supervising.
I have no idea. My mom sent him upstairs to give me a pair of pants. I wasn't in my room where the baby was sleeping and he went in there and bit her. As soon as she started crying he ran out of the room. My step dad saw him and I went in there. Didn't realize it at first and as soon as I did, told my step dad and my mom. He got his ass beat. @unbecomingme @ace.n.avas.mommy. What I mean by how would u have handled it is like would u let him around baby anymore. Like allowing her to touch her or things like that. Because my mom is getting mad at me because I won't let him around her. Won't let him touch her nothing. Trust me. I wanted to beat his ass right then and there.
I would've beat his ass, no questions asked. he's old enough to know better.
Until he and your mom understand you don't have to let anyone see her