Sometimes, I feel like my babies dad... doesn't want the baby at all... at other times it seems like he's excited. What is up with the mind screw? I understand this isn't his first, but it is my first. and to be honest. I refuse to raise a kid with someone who doesn't care... I want my baby to know only love from me and my partner... not feeling like they have to do everything they can think of to please their father... You know?
I hope he does change or he's going to see two of us walking out of his life. I refuse to be treated badly, especially while I am pregnant.
I know the feeling. one minute mine is all about Jamie the next its like I screwed up his life with being pregnant, I'm hoping he changes once he finally sees her
it's different for men then it is women , we carry them inside of us so it's like they are already here to us. for men it all changes once they lay eyes on the baby. I feel like my boyfriend isn't excited sometimes but then I remember I'm the one with the symptoms so I already feel the baby he doesn't . your man might be like that too. it doesn't become real until they see them.
My husband was like that two we have three kids together but he has two other kids with two different women so when I was pregnant he wasn't that excited until she was born now he spoils her like crazy