Help! My son only settles and is quiet and ok if you're standing up with him. Sometimes it's too…

Baby wearing would be helpful in a situation like this.

He only wants to be on the shoulder facing away. @queeneden

I'm stumped.

I honestly would let him cry it out, if baby's diaper is changed, he is fed & not tired enough to sleep let him cry for 5-10 minutes. He'll realize everything is okay. I did that with my LO she's 1 month & I let her cry it out here & there & she ends up liking whatever station I set her in. Whether it's her crib her swig or her play gym. At first the thought of hearing her cry broke my heart but it really worked out for me. Good luck ☺️

If I let him cry he cries so long he gets super sweaty like he's dripping wet. Ive done this trust me. My grandma watches him on wed Thursday and Friday. I think she's the one who did this. @lilshortgirl when I'm home with him I try and let him cry and just keep him stimulated in his swing and keep him rotated between play stations. It's not working

@princevince, try a soothing stuffed animal. I watched my sister in laws adopted baby boy and she spoils the crap out of him. he was the same way. always had to be held and always cried. I have patience with children and this baby made me want to put my head through a wall.... well I found my sons elephant that would vibrate soothingly and I would set him in the bouncer and place that on his side near his butt and he was better. then he got better once he learned to move around on his own. im not sure how old your little guy is. I wish I could be more help if this doesnt work. good luck hun♡ (try setting some rules with grandma too. I had to be firm with my family cause im really strict with my boy.)

I try to be firm. He's only about to be four months old. I'm not sure when they start craving or sitting up to play but when that happens I know everything will be ok. I heard it's a comic reflux thing which he has both. Mild colic and reflux. So I know medicine would help him with reflux but I don't want to give that to him because he's way better now than he was because I started to give him homeopathic treatment. He's also teething so we don't mind to comfort him it's just constant.

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