is it weird for me as a step parent to feel out of control of things that happen with my step daughter. like I feel either my input doesn't matter or I shouldn't say anything at all. cause after all she's not mine. I hate feeling this way.
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yea that's not fair but if be has no problem with it then what can you say or do
@sexii_diiva, she's 4. and it bothers him when her mom drops her off at his parents all the time. but he still splits his time with them.
how old is the girl? and I guess yea its kinda not your place to say anything I guess. how does your man feel about it
@sexii_diiva, yeah she listens to me. for example my husband only gets her every other weekend. hwr mom let's her go to his parents house constantly but rarely let's him see her. per court order we have her from Christmas until this coming Sunday. I feel like he should be able to have all of this time with her but his parents asked for her tonight. I just so badly wanna say something but I don't think it'd change it or matter. it's not that he doesn't wanna spend time with her but he feels his parents should see her too. and I agree to an extent. you know? idk maybe I'm just over thinking.
nope.. I feel the same way. some things I just mention to my husband for him to handle. she does listen to me and respect me but sometimes I think if I say it a certain way he may look into more thinking I have something against his daughter
@sexii_diiva, I just feel out of the picture but if I tell him you choose she's your child. not being mean just saying it. He gets upset and say no your her parent too. etc.