thank you! the sad thing is I have been threw worse

I don't have an opinion on what you should do but so sorry to hear you're going through it and about your family

thank you! and I have stage two and it is genetic. my dad's mom died of it a year ago and my dads dying of it right now... I did dialysis and nothing more than that. I have had it sence I was 15 years old. kidney cancer is a lot different than every other cancer. they don't put you through chemotherapy or radiation till they have decided that you are at stage 3 and if you're on stage 3 they start you off on chemo medication. so a pill which I went through when I was 17 years old. 6 months later, I went into remission. now they just have me cathing and on a lot of natural remedies... sence it is a genetic cancer the chances of getting rid of it is near impossible... I will agree that what you are saying is smart and I wish I could say I want to wait... but things are not that easy for me.

I would listen to my trusted doctors- especially during/after cancer.

I'm sorry but if you have cancer don't you have to go through chemotherapy or radiology? If so you can't be pregnant while getting that stuff done right? I would think that would do harm.. but I've never heard of a doctor saying not to try because of having prior miscarriages. I would recommend waiting though if you have cancer.

That's all your decision. You should take into consideration your health and medical history, but it's up to you. You're the one who knows your body. I developed severe preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome (my lover was failing and my blood cells were low.. Some weird stuff- it was awful), and I delivered at 29 weeks. My lil one is 15 weeks old and I haven't done to have my body baby check because I'm scared I'll be advised to not have more children. What I keep in my mind is I have to stay alive for my 2 boys that I already have. I'm sorry you're going through all that. Like I said that's a question only you can answer.