have you ever just wanted to run away and cut off contact with everyone you know except like 2-3…
have you ever just wanted to run away and cut off contact with everyone you know except like 2-3 people? I swear I'm on the verge of it. Moving and not giving anyone my new address, changing my number and only giving it to my fiance and my best friend, deleting all my family and negative friends from facebook, and just not taking to anyone for a while. not forever. just long enough for them to realize that I am an adult who is capable of making my own decisions and no one elses opinion matters. I don't mind advice if I ask for it but for the most part I want to do things for myself.
Michelle·
Мама сына-младенца
yup, ALL THE TIME!
Sunny 💋·
В ожидании первенца
I deactivated my social sites (except preggie that's life 🙌🏽🙌🏽) lol and just stopped answering phone calls for two weeks straight it was the best vacation of my life no one to tell me what to do no one to annoy me or judge or ask me a million questions . Lol do it !!
missing57user·
@babybermea, me too
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
if people are effecting you in a negative way then the best thing you can do for yourself is to let them go. family or whoever, don't worry about what they will say or think because none of that really matters anyway. you're responsible for your own happiness, no one else.
Sunny 💋·
В ожидании первенца
@jdrose, and didn't you feel relieved ! I did the only reason o started answering calls is I had two people show up at my door and that was more annoying then calling them back lol
missing57user·
lol yes it did the only thing I have is google+ which is awesome and pintrest they have ideas on projects and no one really gets on it that I know lol and I changed my number so ppl would stop calling me and since I live on the other side of town people can't see me or do not know where I live the awesome life @babybermea
Sarah·
Мама дочки-младенца
@babybermea, I'm almost ready to delete my facebook. I tried to just ignore phone calls but my grandmother will just show up at the house if I don't answer the phone because she thinks I'm dying. they even forcefully provided me with a phone on their contract so that I can't use the "out of minutes" excuse.
@maybaby2016 I know what you mean but when it comes to family it's hard. especially because I KNOW they mean well in everything they do I just want some room to breath and do things for myself. if they were nothing but negative with only negative intentions I could do it.
Mickaila Hickerson·
Мама сына-младенца
@maxx, I know leaving might sound like a great idea. But when it comes down to it you never know when those peoples opinions may come in handy. I think cutting everyone off for like 2 weeks or more as @babybermea and @jdrose said would be a great idea and if it gets to overwhelming put your foot down, and speak up. Tell them that this is your child and you will raise that baby how you feel fit not how everyone else does and if they got a problem they can leave
Jackee·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
you need to tell them just that then. let them know how you feel.