ok so I've posted this before but my bf was caught talking to other women twice and he fears me…
ok so I've posted this before but my bf was caught talking to other women twice and he fears me leaving him I've given him 2 chances and he took a shower tonight but it took him 20 minutes to start the shower he said he was (lack of a better word) "pooping" then when I asked to see his phone he told me I didn't need to see it this tells me he is doing those things again ladies what do I do I want us to be together I do love him but our daughter is gona grow up thinking that what he is doing is ok how do I make things better how do I get him to want me like he used to?
Lynette·
To be completely honest, you can't change a guy. It all comes down to you and think, do you still want to be in a relationship when he's talking to other women?
Courtney·
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You can't force someone to want you it takes them wanting you. You need to sit down with him and explain you can't trust him and he needs to prove his innocence and what he is going to do to work on your relationship and if he can't and wants to still talk to them girls I'm sorry but it would be time to say bye.
Courtney·
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Think of it in the perspective if you don't want your daughter to go through it or be treated that way then you know your answer.
Logan·
if he doesn't want you to leave lay out rules. no password on the phone. if he has nothing to hide he needs to hand it over when you ask. tell him it's not because you think he's still doing something wrong it's for peace of mind. I went through something similar and we're doing better now but he needs to understand he screwed up that trust.
Chelsey·
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Definitely can't force someone to want you. Pray pray pray, what's meant to be will find a way (:
Danielle·
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Thanks ladies I will definitely have a deep conversation with him
Danielle·
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@heeykayly, we r good now we worked things out and since it's a new year we r both working on things now we r just trying to move out of his parents place