So having my daughter tomorrow morning and now my husband decides to tell me that we are bring his mother along with us, ok? but does she realize that Im on my own time and am not going to rush things for her sake and that shes going to be waiting in the waiting room for hrs... hrs. So we are going to then be responsible for her.. picking her up, dropping her off, taking her home, feeding her at the hospital because she has no money. I feel like Im going to have to babysit her because shes not exactly the brightest. If she thinks that just because she waited for who knows how many hrs its going to be, that its going to be a clean slate between us after all the shit she has put my husband and I in... she can think again. My husband and I made a deal that I will act calm and normal because it's my daughters day and not mine, and I agreed, I dont want her day ruined. So Im going to have to act fake for one day so that my husband wont get embarrassed because of me being a protective parent and one that doesnt forgive easily. Even if others show up, they will be there for a few minutes and then off to the wedding to get drunk and celebrate someone else. I already know that there will be no celebration on my daughter because my husband and I have spent all our money on her or on bills. So no money to go out and buy alcohol and such to even celebrate. Its like its always a competition with this family and I dont like it. Not one bit :/