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i don't know what to do...my son's father has refused to be part of our sons life since the day I told him I was…

i don't know what to do...my son's father has refused to be part of our sons life since the day I told him I was pregnant...says he doesn't believe he's the father and wants a paternity test but then he refuses a paternity test...my son is 2 months old now and his father still hasn't even tried to see him even though christian looks exactly like him...I try to update him on how christian is and such but I never hear back...I want my son to know I tried everything I could to get his dad to man up and be a father but I feel like all the effort is for nothing

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mommmyof1

Dominique

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I'm in the same place as you are

christiansmomma19

nikole

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@mommmyof1, how do you cope? I can't get over the guilt I feel for giving my son such a shitty father

enn.enn.enn

Ennjaay Dior

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Had The Same Problem Ladies. I Just Gave Up . There Are Me Dying To Be A Dad Out Here . They Will Come To Their Senses When They See Being Something In Life .

mommmyof1

Dominique

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I gave up and said I'm better off doing it alone w

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Okay mommas, this is our second night home and little Ryder refuses to sleep in his bassinet. I’ve tried swaddling,…

Okay mommas, this is our second night home and little Ryder refuses to sleep in his bassinet. I’ve tried swaddling, feeding him before bed so he isn’t hungry, tried 3 different pacifiers, laid him down awake and asleep. Any ideas?? I just don’t know how else to get him to sleep in his bassinet and not in my arms at night. ** I had no problem with my other two boys laying in their beds but Ryder refuses to leave me.**

And I’m officially a single mother and will be loving, caring, and providing for my son on my own. My son will not have…

And I’m officially a single mother and will be loving, caring, and providing for my son on my own. My son will not have a father in his life which is sad very sad bc his mother tried so hard to co-parent and make something work out for the better. Did everything I could but I refuse to be disrespected for having a baby w/o knowing who the father is. But I rather have no father in my child life then the men I’ve dealt with to raise him or be apart of his life.💯💔Can’t force anything on anybody so I’m leaving it in Gods hands and will hope for the better.