i don't know what to do...my son's father has refused to be part of our sons life since the day I told him I was pregnant...says he doesn't believe he's the father and wants a paternity test but then he refuses a paternity test...my son is 2 months old now and his father still hasn't even tried to see him even though christian looks exactly like him...I try to update him on how christian is and such but I never hear back...I want my son to know I tried everything I could to get his dad to man up and be a father but I feel like all the effort is for nothing