I make the kids plate and then my husbands. very rarely his gets made last.

No I know but I make my kids plate first. Then hubby's then mine

I'm not saying fix he's first then watch him eat then they eat but at my house we all eat together I just make his plate first there's then mine we say grace then we eat together @xoamac @santistevanmommie

My hubby does NOT want his plate first. He would make sure our baby is fed & he would even try to make me next.

I do my kids first because my husband won't eat until they have their food first so if I did his first his food would be cold by the time he ate it lol

i make my kids plate first so their food can cool down then i serve my husband and myself then i give my kids their plate, and when i sit them down when i know their food is cool enough, then i sit and eat my food even it that means im last , but my husband does help me serve our kids and helps get them situated

My husband comes first for a lot of stuff but in my opinion I feed my kids first because if things were bad I want them fed before me and my husband. My babies need their food me and hubby can do without if need be. My husband would agree with me whole heartedly.

thank you @adriennelea

husband comes first even says that in Bible sorry just my opinion.! doesn't mean you can't love your children just the same . but ya.

I was raised to feed the kids first then husband and if enough left yourself. my husband was raised the same way.

thank you @leiibaaaby @tater4414 @missnaty @mrscruz0530

My great grand parents are very much alive and extremely religious and my great grandmother would always serve her husband first he is the man he provided the food the home etc , the same works for my grand father now . Back in the day this is how it use to be but of course things have changed . And most people say children first because they werent taught that we are suppose to cater to or husband so yes he does come before the childs cause back then he brought home the bacon you wouldnt have anything to give to your kids if it wasnt for him but roles have switched over the years.

husband first baby second! children grow up and leave your husband is with you forever.

But I do agree with the bible part I have read that when I was becoming a born again Christian that you honor your husband he is the provider and you are supposed to treat him with high respects and make him feel like a king @missytoyou

I believe husband first then kids the kids are still going to eat Not like I'm going to wait for him to finish before I feed the kids lol but if he just got home from a long day at work he deserves a nice hot meal served to him in the end it will be just him and I after the kids leave and have their own families

My opinion I was raised by my mother always making sure her children ate first and that's how I been doing it as well I serve my kids plates then of my child's father if he is home he will get his then mine, lately I've been serving it all and call everyone to the table ..

yes@missytoyou

what that your spouse comes first?@amorasmom

I say children's. a man can fend for himself. he is not incapable

what chapter and verse is that in the bible @missytoyou

Definitely not! And when they are willing then that's a man and he should be treated as such @aek91

@mimiz, ^^

That he definitely is I mean I don't know a lot of men that will willingly take care of another mans kid right? & we've definitely been through a lot

yeah I know I don't follow everything either but that's something that I do believe in @xoarianna

I would always say depending on his ways of he's a good man and has been with you through it then definitely treat him as a husband @aek91

@missytoyou, I'm sorry, I go to church but I can't say I'm a saint and follow everything the bible says. So I will follow what I believe and do things how I was raised.

I always serve first then call everyone's the table.

Yes!!! @xoarianna boyfriend definitely doesn't come before my kids never ever HUSBAND meaning marriage yes

@missytoyou, I definitely treat my boyfriend as if he's my husband and the same goes for the way he treats me, like a wife. I think if you're in a serious relationship you should be treating each other like that because that's how you expect it to be. Well at least that's how I was raised. I wouldn't treat my 1 month boyfriend like a husband but I would treat my long-time boyfriend and baby's father like my husband.

family gatherings in eating every night is two different things like when people say who comes first yur children husband,mother in your life according to the Bible it should be your spouse @xoarianna

Why wouldn't you treat a boyfriend like a husband? I'm not married to my boyfriend but he works all day for myself & his child & he takes care of my oldest who is not his.. So why wouldn't I treat him like my husband? I should also say he pays the rent & bills & buys us our needs...

@blessedmamaof3 it's how it has always been. No matter what, children go first. At all family gatherings, we do children first and then you and your so can make your plates.

yes husband and boyfriend two different things you wouldn't treat a boyfriend like a husband @xoarianna

yes that's what I was taught you always serve your husband first in anything because when your children get older it there are going to leave and start their own families and then who's left your husband @nharri22

My husband and I both work full time day shift. He cooks. I clean. Or vise versa . We sit down together with our daughter to eat. One of us makes her plate then we eat

I agree @xoarianna my kids come first

From what I understand in your post husband and boyfriend are two different things, but my boyfriend knows the kids come first and then I'll serve him his plate. Our baby hasn't arrived yet, but when I do serve my 2 year old brother, he's first and then I'll make my so his plate and then my own. Even when we get married, our baby, siblings, etc, if they're children, they will be served before him.

my husband makes his own plate after he helps me make the kid's plates.

My husband should. He works so hard and brings in about 99% of the income so he should definitely get a meal first unless we are very poor and only have so much food then my children first

I agree. my husband always comes before my kids. one day when they are older and gone it's just going to be me and him and I'd really like it to be pleasant between us. I mean there are exceptions to this but yes. husbands should come first

I always serve my husband first. As long as your children still have to eat the order should not matter that's why you make plenty some people have different beliefs don't let them get to you

It really depends on the timing. Like if it's freshly hot then yea husband will get his plate while my sons is cooling down, but if it's lunch and it's cold meat or something not hot, my child will come first, always!