Ive explained to my husband I dont know how many times that his mother is not going to be allowed to hold or see my child til she has earned it. Shes been a bitch and then is now trying to suck up and be all nice until she gets what. She actually called me by my name for the first time in months. I did not what him to tell her or others that Im being induced on Wednesday but he just cant keep his mouth shut. He is really frustrating me and is doing stuff behind my back. Asking me stuff and not telling me why he needed that info. He says I have no say because I will be on epidural and what I say wont mean anything. I dont want to get into a fight with him but I just might have too. It isnt fair how others can use him and bitch on him as they please and then get the benefits out of it. Related or even friends, seeing, let alone holding my daughter will have to be earned especially by how much they have screwed us over and talked shit about us behind our backs. My husband is too forgiving, and I have not. Not after Ive been disrespected and used, and hurt. I do not easily forgive.
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You are the only one who actually has a say. While you are there the info on the baby's bracelets will say baby boy or baby girl of ____⬅️insert your name. It's your moment and your baby, first and foremost !
He thinks I dont have a say in anything... just because his mother doesnt like me, but that its her grandchild and she has a right. He says its just the hormones talking, so whatever I saw is ignored... hes being very frustrating
I would tell the hospital you don't want her in your room or holding your baby he needs to respect you and your wishes because you and that baby should be put first before anyone else mother or not
When we suprised her with the pregnancy many months ago, she looked at me and said it was a boy and walked off. Nothing after that except to others when she needed something to brag about. Then last I saw her, she explained to me that My husband is her son and she will Always come before me
His mother was talking shit on him last week when he wasnt here at our house. So I confronted him about it and he got mad at her and didnt talk to her. Then forgave her 2 days later as if she hadnt said a thing. and now as I should have my daughter any day now or Wednesday for sure, He decides to be nice.
idk how but you need to get him to respect your feelings on this. I get he thinks this baby will be a "heal all" but that's not real and not going to work long term (just like having a mans baby won't make him stay). He needs to respect you and who you want there. The epidural doesn't mean. your dead it means your legs are numb.
Anyway if worse comes to worse, just keep asking your nurse to take people out, they can stay in the waiting room, you don't have to have one person in the room you don't want there!
Thats good to know