so im 36 weeks still havent had a baby shower because my mom doesnt and grandmother doesnt think i need one since my…

the whole time ive been pregnant they have tried to act like nothing is important and stuff like that like my grandmother on my moms side called my now fiance just the sperm donner l o le she wont acknowledge him as the father or my future husband and they keep throwning religious stuff in my face about things and they think i already have all that i need for the baby so they dont think a baby shower is nessasary like they are acting like anything i wanna do is out of the question like when me and my fiance found out i was pregnant i moved out of my parents and we moved in together and they lost control over what i did and everything like that then i tried posting some stuff on facebook about my pregnancy and my mom told me to take it down because nobody knew yet and that they didnt need to find out over facebook and things like that they even tried to convince me a few times that i needed to come stay with them for a few weeks right after she is born but here is the catch my fiance cant come he can only visit if i do that so yea and for christmas they wrapped up some of the stuff i went with them and picked out and they bought but didnt let me have and gave them to me a christmas gifts instead of buying me anything like no i didnt wanna be surprised by you giving me something brand new for the baby i have three drawers full of stuff that i picked out and they wont let me have it yet and they dont wanna give it to me they wanna bring it to my house when im not comfortable with them being at my house because my mother who works for dhr threatened that she would have my child taken away from me if she thought i wasnt treating it right......

for ur birthday do a baby shower u definitely need a baby shower it saves u money in a long run

Maybe they are telling you it's a birthday party and trying to surprise you with a shower? Let's all hope that's the case you definitely need a baby shower

you should go ahead and have a baby shower. everyone needs a baby shower. there is always something you need for baby

I'm sure you would need baby things before a birthday party .... why would they even think about a birthday party over a baby shower .

they said instead of a baby shower they wanna just have me a birthday party

Who cares if you need one, you deserve one