What do you do when you feel the love is dead in your marriage? As of right now I'm so not feeling…

i have felt like that a few times and i just let him know.. and then i prayed about it and read some books on marriages it helped.. hope it gets better for yoy

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Girl! I feel you. I go through these feelings every two days. I'm not married but we live together and we're having a baby. I told him, the only way we are going to make it is by letting God be the head of our house. Clearly, we cannot do this by ourselves. The next day, I noticed his bible was near the couch so that let me know at least he thought about it. An unloving man during pregnancy is such a lonely terrible feeling but God gave us these babies for a reason and I truly think we have to hold on and fight for family. I want to watch that movie, The War Room because my only true healing and solace has been prayer. Pray hard all through the day. Talk out loud to God. You can ask for any good thing your family needs. Sometimes I just start my day with a spiritual pep talk. Hang in there, girl. Your baby deserves your best try. You need to be able to say, "I gave it my all"

Okay I will try reading some books, I do pray now @qamk

thank you I will @najahlove

@najahlove, love it!

My advice- counseling. Even if only you go. If you're Christian, Christian counseling. And find a strong long married couple to mentor you two. Your problems are very likely not unique to you and they would have some tips. Hugs!!!

thank you I will be doing @rgaine

I know exactly how you feel, and our biggest fall is our communication suck because we're so not interested anymore 😞

Talk to him and be honest about how you feel. If he is willing try some of the marriage challenges/books together like the love dare or the 5 languages of love. Prayers!

I just got married to my wife but we had been together and living together for 3 years prior. and when things got real tough and we felt like walking away we talked about everything. I seen where her head and heart were and she saw where mine where at too... I even suggested counseling we didn't go but we both know it's there and things changed for the better.. pray and talk to eachother good luck

you think maby its hormones?

I ordered the book like 4 this. morning @ella1007

yes that's why I don't wanna just give up or just say it's all him @mommy2bof3n2016

good ideal hunny i feel same way I cant stand mine touching me next to me Uggh his breathing annoys me lol but I know its my hormones bkus I miss him wen I'm away from him to long and it wasn't like this before pergnacy

yes me to he finds me n his sleep n touches me n it irritates my soul n yes when I'm away from him that's all I want is him! these freaking hormones but I'm going to continue to pray n take the advice of you ladies n we gone be alright @mommy2bof3n2016

amen beautiful