I know this is quite a lot but I really need advice....okay so this is what I'm struggling with my husband and I are expecting our first child, it's a boy but before me my husband went through a situation with his ex where she was pregnant and said the baby was his so he sign the birth certificate and the little boy has his last name. I know it was before me but now that I am pregnant with his biological child I want him to get his name remove from the birth certificate and for her to change his last name and cut off contact with them because every few weeks she is always messaging him about changing it and always checking up on him but all he does is ignore her because he like she oonly saying that to have conversation with him . In the past I use to get upset with him about the name thing and the messaging between them so a couple months ago I tried an different approach I decide to tell him not to worry about it as long as their was no contact there and to try to see if he would do it anyways because he knows how much it bothers me ??? I do not know what to do ????