Merry Christmas to everyone..... I am not in the holiday spirit and I do it want to get anyone else down but I really need to talk my husband and I have been arguing all week and tonight has been the worst I feel like I wanna walk away
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@aubriemommy416 that's wonderful! My parents belong to a non denominational church and the people are very nice, but I just don't feel comfortable there. It's loud and the music is okay, contemporary, I like it but sometimes I wonder what it's like at other churches. I was raised traditional southern baptist and I know that's not for me (I can't stay awake and they scared me as a kid lol). What type of church do you attend? You will do great in labor and delivery! My best advice is relax and go with the flow. Things are so unpredictable at birth, I found the best thing was to take it one minute at a time and focus on breathing and not tensing up. I'm hoping this time will be as smooth as my first! Lol
@eternalsunshine4, finding a good church is hard I know I bounce from church to church until I found one where I felt comfortable and it just so happen to also be a church where it's mostly my husband family so everyone there is practically related but the pastor is a woman she is my husband godmother and she is. or biased at all she tells it how it is and has a heart of gold I love her so much and yes I can't wait I'm just scared about the pain and labor
@aubriemommy416 same here sweet lady, got to ride the wave. I'm trying to rely more on God and focus on prayer for guidance when times like this come about. I don't do it often enough, though. I wish I weren't do skittish with crowds and loud/noisy places... Maybe I just haven't found the right church? Idk I feel very confused about religion, lately. It makes me feel guilty, and sometimes like I don't know what's what. I'm searching, though. But anyways! Wait until your daughter is born and you smell her scent for the first time! Omg it is heaven! I remember Oliver smelled so sweet, I just could not stop the joy from flowing (and the tears). Lol I'll never forget it. My heart is bursting for you! ☺️
@eternalsunshine4, awww yes I have been married 2 years and we have been though alot in that shirt time and even though it gets hard he makes it all worth it I know we are going through a rough time right now and I don't want to lose faith but it's hard seeing the light in the darkness when everything seems to be stacked up against you but we trying maybe not right now thia second but we are and awww yes that's what I can't to do in just wish my daughter was here now so I could cuddle and kiss all over her
@aubriemommy416 even though he snores (my youngest) and keeps me awake, he fell asleep cuddling in my bed tonight and I almost didn't move him. But I had to get his presents out. Lol
@aubriemommy416 that's awesome (about your church program) - God knew just what you needed! 😊 I'm so happy you get to experience becoming a mommy and I know that will bring you and your husband closer. Hard times come like waves and test us in our relationships so much. Being married is the hardest thing I have ever done. My 4th anniversary is on the 31st. I am up in arms about it approaching, but really trying to stay positive. Seeing the joy in my kids' faces is enlightening. My older two are with their bio mom for the next 4 days (they haven't seen her since June) so I am really missing them, but my youngest is home. He's 3 and he is my light in all the darkness. If there's anything that motivates me to strive for the best, it's my kids. I'm struggling not to go climb in his bed with him. He brings my heart so much peace and joy.
@eternalsunshine4, awwww Thank you so much yes my little girl is everything I wanted and needed despite what happens with me and my husband I will forever be grateful and love him for blessing me with her I cannot wait to see her face in April
@eternalsunshine4, haha yes they are so good I won them along with a goodie bag at my church Christmas program on Saturday and I just opened them up since I could t sleep
@aubriemommy416 congratulation on your pregnancy! 😊 I just read your profile and it made my heart so happy. I'm so excited for you!
@aubriemommy416 I'm sorry it didn't get anywhere. 😞 hopefully tomorrow will be better. That sounds delicious! I love ginger and chocolate!
I know these times are hard, ladies. Let's find joy in our babies and each other. 💕 And try to use what knowledge, calm and focus we have on our situations to do as much good as possible, no matter how hurt we are. It will nurture our spirits and those around us so much more than resentment and anger (I'm struggling with this, but it's more desperation and despair/hopelessness when I think of putting faith in my husband). 😢 I'm trying to be present in what I have control over, none of which involves him. Hard to know when enough is enough, that being said, as I love him so damn much. Can y'all relate? It's torturous.
@eternalsunshine4, we been talking all day long and it's gotten no where he just went to bed and I'm up eating chocolate dipped Moravian ginger cookies
@aubriemommy416 I know that has to be very very hard on you. Have you tried talking to him? I tried talking to my husband, tonight, but to no avail. I couldn't calm my hurt enough to go to sleep, so I'm taking an Epsom salt bath in the dark with white noise, reading about tonight's full moon. It's interesting, check it out. ссылка
@evansmommy, awww no I'm sorry Merry Christmas to you and your baby
@eternalsunshine4, just thank you for commenting I feel so alone I don't have any family here all the family we have is his and they can never see any wrong in him it's all me
Me either I'm just sad bc it's my baby's first Christmas 😢💔 @aubriemommy416
I'm going through the same thing, and while I don't have any advice, I do want to say I'm here if you want to vent. I know how lonely it feels and I know how necessary it is to be able to reach out to someone. 💕
@evansmommy, yes I have been crying all day my Christmas is ruin I don't wanna be around anyone tomorrow @ape thank you so much
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Guys, I've been in labor I guess since 9pm Sunday. .that I know.
I'm in labor.
Guys, I've been in labor I guess since 9pm Sunday. .that I know.
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@eternalsunshine4, idk how to classify my church we were part of the holiness church of God Inc. but we left them earlier this year and now we are on our own and it's the best thing for us to see my pastor not stress as much as she was when we was part of the denomination she smiles alot more and is very cheerful now. Awwww thanks for the advice thia is my first baby and this pregnancy has been hard I been back and forth to the hospital becuase of my pain and it's just muscle spams and I also have a bruised ligament becuase my daughter likes to sit low and kick like crazy and bruise all my insides down there