So my uncle wants his daughter and my baby to grow up together but there's a long horrible history between myself and his baby's mom. She's not allowed in my house or around my children so I'm not really sure how to approach the subject and tell him it's not going to happen. Any ideas?
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@babybermea, if his baby's mom wasn't in the picture there's be absolutely no problem at all so I guess I'll just explain that to him and hopefully he understands, thanks for the support :)
Ohh noo he lives with y'all :/ ehhhh thats such a sticky situation but ultimately it's about your beautiful babies coming into the world and he obviously loves you and wants to share your baby's childhood with his . So if the aunt could stay away would you consider it ? Or naaaw to much to go through def something to think about since y'all live together
@babybermea, thanks for the advice. I'm just thinking about it a lot bc he brings it up all the time. It wouldn't be so hard if he didn't live with us. But thanks for listening!
I would just smile and nod now and then when the babies are born just avoid him or tell him why your not comfortable with that . But to avoid stress when your children aren't even here yet why fight now ? He may be offended and hurt now . And it's just unnecessary drama right now. Unless you want to tell him now to avoid anything later then just be straight with him and say im not comfortable with your wife because of X Y &Z and lay it all out ...
I hope it works out doll @lilchicken