Asked my boyfriend if he could take me to work this morning and he said yes if I would put a few…
Asked my boyfriend if he could take me to work this morning and he said yes if I would put a few dollars in gas. Well this morning he calls at 4:30 (I have to be there at 5:15) to tell me he doesn't have gas to get to my house so I'll have to figure something out. I asked if he could cyphen the gas out of his truck that isn't even running just so he could get me there. He made me feel like shit for asking when I'm the one that's 7 months pregnant and having to work 30 hours a week with a high risk pregnancy that's probably going to put me out of work soon because he won't keep a job to help me pay for the stuff MY daughter needs. While I "loan" him half my damn pay checks! And he thinks I'm not gonna sue his ass for child support!
Deborah lamar·
Мама троих детей
smh I'm from the outside looking in but I think he should be a little more supportive and considerate
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (30 нед.)
I agree with @mrshutchison1 Also, it's past time to stop loaning him money if you know you don't have it to lose. He's using you.
lilchicken·
Мама сына (8 лет)
no judgement, just my opinion/experience but id definitely quit the "loan" thing, he needs to be supporting you not the other way around
jenny·
Мама подростка, беременна (28 нед.)
I literally had to read this twice for it to sink in.. Say what? I agree with all the other comments on here.. Stop "loaning" him your hard earned money. He can't keep a job but he probably knows you will continue to support him.
Teresa·
My dad once told me that guys will do what you allow.. and will continue to test what they can get away with. I hope things get better for you!
Arianna·
В ожидании первенца
Thanks everyone! I know I need to stop loaning him money but I've always done it so it's a hard habit to break now with a baby on the way.
Deborah lamar·
Мама троих детей
it's not hard you either choose supporting him or supporting your child if you let this continue your child is going to go without for a man that doesn't give a fuck you gotta be stronger mama I've been there but you gotta say "NO" my child come first and don't give him shit