Yeah thanks

whatever you're comfortable with

and yeah @jaixi definitely right!

Also just know being spiteful can bite you in the ass later on... Karma .

thanks all for your comments and opinions and not being negative

Ikr that's what I feel @jaixi

The fact the you are contemplating it means you know it might be better to say something to him.

Being the bigger person and just to say you did it. You will never regret it and he'll have nothing to throw in your face.

thanks

I don't think you would be in the wrong @mswalker

@mswalker, Do whatever is best for you and your well-being and you can't go wrong.

thanks Ladies I just wanted to know if I was not to tell him would I be wrong @ce5ce @arijane316

exactly @twinmommy2016 and that's what I feel like doing but then I think about what @abeals04 said he will never admit he has been as asshole to my kid so I would look like the bad guy @arianna321 I totally agree but ugh I'm conflicted @lilchicken but it will hurt if he doesn't show so I figured save myself the hurt

but that's just my opinion

heck naw dont tell him nothing about it. because if by some miracle he decides to show up thats stress for you that you dont need which will tamper your happy moment. what i will suggest is when your child is born and you're ready for visitors then invite him... but dont let his presence ruin your happy moment