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Temesha
mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

i am being induced on Wednesday, my son's father isn't around or been involved THE WHOLE NINE MONTHS but should I tell him about the induce day or keep going about my business!!!!! opinions welcomed!!!!!!!!!

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

Yeah thanks

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missing144user
missing144user·Мама сына (10 лет)

whatever you're comfortable with

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

and yeah @jaixi definitely right!

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jaixi
Jacinda ·Мама троих детей

Also just know being spiteful can bite you in the ass later on... Karma .

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

thanks all for your comments and opinions and not being negative

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

Ikr that's what I feel @jaixi

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jaixi
Jacinda ·Мама троих детей

The fact the you are contemplating it means you know it might be better to say something to him.

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jaixi
Jacinda ·Мама троих детей

Being the bigger person and just to say you did it. You will never regret it and he'll have nothing to throw in your face.

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

thanks

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twinsandmore
Monica·Мама четверых детей

I don't think you would be in the wrong @mswalker

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lilchicken
lilchicken·Мама подростка

@mswalker, Do whatever is best for you and your well-being and you can't go wrong.

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

thanks Ladies I just wanted to know if I was not to tell him would I be wrong @ce5ce @arijane316

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

exactly @twinmommy2016 and that's what I feel like doing but then I think about what @abeals04 said he will never admit he has been as asshole to my kid so I would look like the bad guy @arianna321 I totally agree but ugh I'm conflicted @lilchicken but it will hurt if he doesn't show so I figured save myself the hurt

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arijane316
pattalee·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

but that's just my opinion

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ce5ce
Cassandre·Мама дочки (10 лет)

heck naw dont tell him nothing about it. because if by some miracle he decides to show up thats stress for you that you dont need which will tamper your happy moment. what i will suggest is when your child is born and you're ready for visitors then invite him... but dont let his presence ruin your happy moment

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arijane316
pattalee·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

if it were me, I wouldn't say a word and I wouldn't bother to put his name on the birth certificate either. if he can't/won't be there during the pregnancy, he doesn't deserve to be there for the birth.

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lilchicken
lilchicken·Мама подростка

I agree with the other suggestions, I'd tell him but not hold my breath but prepare emotionally for how you will handle the stress of him being there

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mommysbabies
Ashley ·Мама троих детей

I would tell him just so he can never tell your child you didn't include him which could cause your child to be mad at you

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

thanks @mrshutchison1

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arianna321
Arianna·Мама дочки (9 лет)

My sister was in the same situation. She finally decided to tell him after her and the baby were settled, then allowed him to make the decision on whether he wanted to come visit it not.

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twinsandmore
Monica·Мама четверых детей

I'm spiteful, so I say keep going on your way Momma!! If he can't contact you and check up on you, then peace!! It's not the father of my children I'm going through that with but the woman who raised me for 20 years and then walked out. She doesn't try to contact me, so I'm not telling her anything!!

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mswalker
Temesha·Мама троих детей

I really want him to be involved but ik just know he isn't going to care so I don't want to hurt myself @lilchicken

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mrshutchison1
Deborah lamar·Мама троих детей

my first second and third was the same situation I told all there dad's when I was going to be induced or when I went in labor if he hasn't been involved it whatever you feel is best I gave them the opportunity to be apart of birth none of them came but they had the knowledge. ..hope this helps 😊

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lilchicken
lilchicken·Мама подростка

I think the most important thing to ask is what you want ma?

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