Nothing gets me more upset than seeing teen moms or young moms just passing off their kid. You chose this , your baby is your responsibility not your moms or grandmas or whoever.
I got pregnant with my first when I was 16 and 17 when I have her and NEVER EVER had anyones help .
A break every once in a while is okay but I know what you mean about passing the baby on so they can party I see it so often it's sad. I'm 21 with 2 kids and barely like letting someone watch my oldest so I can go to my doctor appt (my youngest is a 1 month so she goes everywhere with me right now)
true but I meant by just letting anypme watch their kids so they can go "turn up" or just get a break . A girl I know has her baby sleep in her moms room so she can sleep at night . That is NOT okay . not to me
ditto