Okay so I have a question. My boyfriend lives 450 miles away and we've been talking about when he can come up here again (I haven't seen him since October) and how after Christmas he won't have enough money because he has a two year old daughter.
But because we're so far away from each other and he has needs and such, we were talking about me condoning him sleeping with another woman while we're away from each other. Strictly for sex. Nothing more and he tells me when it's going to be happening, etc. I was just curious if anyone else has been in a situation similar or if you ladies have any Input on this. Any suggestions or input is appreciated. I'm just kind of at a loss right now. Idk what to do. I want to keep him happy and I know he has needs and I'm never ever in the mood.
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@txkitten83, thank you very much. I never thought of how it would affect things after we're married and no longer in an open relationship
I have actually been in an open marriage before, I would Not suggest it! It was awesome to know his needs were being taken care of while he was away and I knew about every encounter he had with any other female, but you have to realize once you step into that relm(sp) of things it's almost impossible to go back to a relationship with just the two of you. Wither you move in together or whatever changes in the future he will ALWAYS expect more. Which is why after 11 years of marriage we are now divorce. It's up to you, I always was able to trust him we never hid things from each other etc....but as soon as we decided to be done with it our marriage went to dust.
if your comfortable with the idea of him sleeping with someone else then that's your decision on weather to have an open relationship or not like Laylaopal said what's mine is mine lol but keep in mind you may also risk him or his sex partner catching feeling
@leaah_olivia, I would just say you can watch all the porn you want and go buy stuff to help you fulfill your needs alone because sex can be just sex but most of the time feeling get involved
@laylaopal, lol yeah that crossed my mind too 😂 and my mamaoftwo1315 I trust him 100%
If you feel comfortable enough to do an open relationship I wouldn't see an issue but I personally couldn't do it I'm greedy and what's mine is mine and even if you got needs you got hands
oooy I would be so insecure I wouldn't be ok with that at all, you trust him enough to let him do that?
I would say if you want to have sex with someone else then we can't be together. ...relationships are not totally about sex
Buy him a flesh light.