wanting opinions: your boyfriend has a friend who hates you and talks major shit about you, and gets…
wanting opinions:
your boyfriend has a friend who hates you and talks major shit about you, and gets upset bc he spends time with you. and he's given him multiple chances and it's always a fight before friends again. you as the girlfriend doesn't like the dude either but you accept him for your man even if your buttons get pushed so much. the friend talked shit about your unborn baby, and they stopped being friends. 7 months later... your boyfriend tells you he's giving the friendship another chance. how do you respond to that?
I'm not mad. but I'm very sketch.. my boyfriend has given this dude more than a handful of chances. I know it's not bc I'm the girlfriend and we're having a baby, because this dude has a girlfriend of 5 years and a 2 year old daughter with her.
Txkitten·
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
Let your bf do what he feels is necessary, he will learn that his "friend" really isn't a friend and set your boundaries this time. Tell him your fine with it but you can't handle how he treats you so you want to keep your distance because stress really isn't good for you and the baby right now
Randi·
Why does this guy hate you so much? Jealousy? I mean he should grow up and your bf's priority is the you and the baby. And who wants a friend that talks negatively about your own kid?
Kaitlyn Martin·
Мама сына (2 года)
I know the situation all to well my fiancé has a high school who uses to come around he was so rude to me every time him and my brother spent the night he would drink ( my son at my parents ) and started being very mean times ware i called my mom to come get me this started to rub off on my fiancé he started drinking so one night I locked them both out after we lost our place my fiancé and his friend did team truck driving together that's when my fiancé seen his true colors and stop being friends I'm sorry my comment is so long just wanted to share a little story about my experience
missing112user·
В ожидании первенца
he's hated me since I moved down here with my boyfriend. and Ive tried and tried with the dude. IDK what it is about me he hates. its almost like he doesn't want my boyfriend to continue being happy finally like he's been with me for these last two years. and my boyfriend has too much of a big heart. always gets screwed over by a lot of people and it's like he doesn't know when to put his foot down. and it worries me sometimes, honestly. and he's always falling for this guy's "life is too short" apology. he uses it everytime. I figured once the dude said "I bet that baby isn't even yours, and you don't even know if she's gonna make it through this pregnancy like the rest of the ones y'all had. that should've been a sign. but go ahead choose a dumb hairy ape of a bitch over your brother." would've been a red flag that that dude is NOT a good person. @jstncrazy2
Laura Mesher·
Well I bet that the friendship will be good for a while, but it sounds like this guy will once again be rude about the baby or you and your BF will realize that he isn't a good friend. Once again. Unfortunately sometimes people have to make the same mistake or get hurt twice to learn who's truly there for them. All you can do in my opinion is be there for your BF, continue trying to be open minded to this guy in his life again and when he is rude again about your child or you then voice your hurt to your BF. hopefully he will realize that his child and your feelings are priority over a jerk friend. I mean there's a possibility that he has changed and will accept you and be kind. That would he suprising it seems, but you never know:) just be careful of you and baby having to deal with unneeded stress over it.
missing112user·
В ожидании первенца
that's what I'm hoping for. that entire family is drama. I told him I'll tolerate the guy again but dude's sister is to stay away and he is to not be friends with her. no only did I find out and started a rumor saying I reported her brother to DCS and almost got the baby taken and that they gave my name. funny thing. DCS can't give out names. and two that's too low for me. I specifically even said "Anthony can even come to run hospital to visit when the baby is born. but if I catch his sister near me. I promise I will rock her" to an extent I can forgive. but amongst lines like that against me..i can't. we've been fine without the both of them but im down to try for his friend bc I know it'll make my boyfriend happy. but. I can't with the sister.