I'm so pissed. our roommates keep letting this girl come and stay with us. because she had no where else to go. she's been couching it at different people's houses for months now. she can't keep a job . she lived with us for a little bit but decided to move to her moms and ended up relapsing on meth. she looks awful. and we keep telling them We dont want her staying here anymore. well tonight I found something that better make it so they don't let her in this house again. they have a strict no drugs in the house rule. which she knows. she's been in and out of the bathroom multiple times now since she got here. and I just found a cut up straw that was in her pocket that fell out onto the chair outside. I know it is hers because she grabbed a straw from our pantry and I wondered why it was so short. well now I know why. so I'm keeping it as evidence to show to them. washed my hands and everything after touching it. I'm sorry but I dont want that around my newborn. and I will do everything I can to make sure it isn't. she created this herself. and honestly if she isn't willing to get help then she can just sleep outside. I'm done helping her. especially if she's gonna disrespect us like that. sorry for the long post I'm just furious right now. wish I didnt have to wait til morning to show it to them.
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@s-moore21, Yup you can't help anyone who doesn't want to help themselves!
well I'm not willing to take any risks of losing my child just because she decided to be stupid. she can go do it somewhere else. I kept telling them she was still doing meth and they dont listen. @aloveless
I agree! and she wont take the help I've offered her ! I have offered to take her to a women's shelter so she has a place to sleep, eat and get the care she needs. but she says she wants to do it on her own. looks like she's doing awesome so far (NOT!) she needs rehab or something !! I dont care if she hates me for this i could care less actually. there is No point in me helping if she wont even help herself @jujusmomma
take that stand. its your apartment and baby. her screwing up and you keeping it secret too could end in you loosing your baby so good for you
Do what you need to to make sure your baby is safe! Obviously she has a serious problem..she needs help!
there are places out there that she can go to for help. im in recovery and they have meeting that can help her all she has ro be is willing to stop and change for herself otherwise she will never want help. you need to put your foot down about her comin over and stay. you have every right to be made. your baby comes first over anyones needs. make her leave. stand up. hang in there hunny. this to shall pass