lol I'm crying over here u got me rolling @jessica0830 stop lol ...

@niqua541, men love they grandmas! I'm flying all the way out to Egypt just to jump on her back 😩😩😩😂😂😂

lol not the grandma lol why ? @jessica0830

@jessica0830, yes they sound alike .. I know slowly but surely I will get over him.. and jus start my life with me and my baby boy ;) congrats to the both of us I know we will b great mom's with out them ass holes lol

@niqua541, I'm about to fight his grandma lmao

we on the same page @jessica0830 at least u feel my pain.. I just can't take anymore

@niqua541, I haven't even made an attempt to reach out to him. You want to talk to me then he know my number my address my FB my IG he can call my cousin (which is his bestfriend) or go see if I'm at my uncles house.... I'm done...

@niqua541, sounds like our men are bestfriends lol

I feel as pregnant woman our pregancy should b normal n happy and a breeze he shouldn't b putting me through anything but being supportive. @jessica0830

same here I told him we done and I haven't heard from him he went as far as blocking my number so I'm like forget him too.. what if I go in labor u got my number blocked so u won't know smh.. he need to grow up @jessica0830

@niqua541, I broke up with him last week and haven't talk to him since Tuesday or seen him in almost 3 weeks. I refuse to keep putting myself through this shit!!!

@niqua541, mine is 30 and he has a 10 year old! Idk why they start acting crazy like this

Men don't become fathers til they see their child. That's is a true statement even if the best father...their bond is different...we had to "care" and make a change over night before our baby even had arms/legs/eyes/hair etc. men are different....dont over react age is nothing but a number men are still boys no matter what...now if he still acts the same after the baby comes then u know what u need to do. Mine has a bad wrap sheet with his previous child soo I am already on the lookout although he seems to be doing better you never know....history has a way of repeating itself.....keep your head on right girl it will work itself out. No one said being a mom is easy and they weren't lying....but we are stronger than ppl know...😉👌🏽

@jessica0830, Yes I truly understand that but he 31 years old.. n this ain't his first imma need him to wake the he'll up real soon @disa_nicole thank you boo I'm trying my best just to worry about me and my baby but it's hard when I want him in my son's life and to care just as much as I do ..

Mine is almost 30 also and this isn't his first baby @jessica0830 ....I had to scream on him about buying bullshit earrings and clothes for himself (nothing for me either but food when I'm dying for it and have no money) but he hadn't even got a bib for his kid....he thought he was slick came home with his last cHeck and bought $80 worth of stuff for the baby but also bought himself a new pair of pants and also asked to go out that night....(he didn't come back home til 10Am the next day) I WAS FURIOUS.....I said u r not going out again for the rest of this pregnancy since u don't know how to act when I give u a little freedom....I almost lost my mind the next morning and he walked in like nothing was wrong....sooo believe me I know the struggle....and I kicked mine out twice in the first 4 months of being pregnant Bc I couldn't take the bullshit...he had no job and has no ambition to do n e thing but lay in the bed all day and be on social media. So I said fuck u and get out. But Hun do what is best for u and the baby Bc the stress will have u in and out the hospital with Braxton hicks and could also send u into labor. That stress hormone is not a joke. I am working on being calm now for myself and the baby as well....it's hard Bc I feel like my hormone level is rising again...I have really bad days with him but things are going to get better just pray on it and make sure u take care of urself Bc God forbid he drops dead tomorrow u will still need to be the best mom u can b and in the best of health to take care of ur baby..(that's how I think about it every single day of my life) we are more stressed now than ever on a regular soo no need to stress more over nonsense......

Let me tell you men go through changes like we do. They either become super supportive OR start to back off and be the complete opposite. Me and my boyfriend have been going through rough times too and he ain't no young chick-a-Dee he's almost 30.. I decided we need to take a little break at least until the baby is born. Love the man to death but men react to pregnancy differently. Just so happens some of them react by being an ASS and ain't nobody got time for that lol @niqua2016

my boyfriend only brought him one thing and it's a couple of onesies of his favorite football team. I mean yeah cute but he still needs more things especially since we're having a winter baby. our baby can come anytime now.

@niqua2016 baby girl I'm in the same situation so I know exactly what you mean. like someone told me worry about your baby and you. that's all that matters

@mypregnancy_journey, omg girl I'm so sick of his ass. smh he got so much to say but have done little to nothing for our son.. but can go out and shop for his self .. like really

@bree005, he just don't get it and it's like talking to a wall when asked to do anything for the baby. I jus give up and I don't want to be a nasty person and put him on child support but it's looking that way cause I'm sick of it I had enought.

lol yes, I got angry just reading it because I hate the fact that instead of man'n up and doing what's best for their child they're worried about other stuff that doesn't matter anymore!

Yea.

can u tell I was super angry writing this lol 😁 @akla202 @mypregnancy_journey @bree005

you're not the only one, I'm having so many problem with the father of my child as well.

Omg you need all the baby stuff now cause you'll be to busy to go buy it when the baby is here.

same here. they think that becuz the child isn't here they don't have to buy anything. makes no sense