hey ladies this question is TMI. So I just found out that my husband's sperm is what's been causing…

Pull out?

I was told to pee and shower, I'm not even supposed to be having sex but its so hard these hormones make me want to jump my fiance everyday he walks through the door. but yea pee and shower afterwards is what I was told.

Pull out. Even if you get it out, the bacteria in his sperm still gets released in your vagina which is making you get BV. Condom is best.

I usually pee, then just sit there for awhile then get in the shower.

yeah @stephhhx3 I know that's an option, but with him he doesn't like nutting on me. I know it's weird

thanks @mamaofangelbaby0610 I'll try that.

a douche it's bad to do it everyday but I personally think once in a lifetime won't hurt.

@kiara459, not weird. My husband likes going inside me but I hate how when I get up everything comes falling down so I give him no choice 😁 we usually put a towel down so he can go on there. 😂

Have him eat lots of fruits and veggies.. might help because it affects the sperm. also if you're not pulling out then condom is definitely best. But lube can also cause bv too. sometimes being too clean or having anything like lube can throw off the good & bad bacteria levels.

@stephhhx3 thats a really great idea. I will run that past him to see if he's okay with that. thanks

thanks for all of the feedback ladies😊 I appreciate it.

@stephhhx3, I have that happen to me too it just runs down my leg and I hate it but he doesn't come inside me anymore because he can't but he doesn't really come on me either he just comes on the middle of our bed on the sheets and I always have to wash them afterwards.

I had to make my husband pull out and I eat activia everyday and that's what finally stopped mine... On top of not using strong scented soaps and laundry detergent

@mamaofangelbaby0610, omg lol! I'd be so pissed if I had to wash my sheets every time! Towel is much easier😂

the actual product in a douche always threw my balance off so the times i really felt the need to i would empty the bottle and just fill it with warm water to use!

right I think we're just gonna do that from now on because its so annoying to have to wash the sheets all the time literally he has to have sex everyday because be says he loves my pregnancy body lol @stephhhx3

@mamaofangelbaby0610, I wish I could be having sex everyday! I wanna please my husband but I'm just never in the mood 😩😩 when we finally get alone time I just wanna cuddle and sleep hahaha.

yea this pregnancy has made me super horny all the time. lol @stephhhx3

@mamaofangelbaby0610, when I was pregnant with my first he got a Dad book and it said after the first trimester I'd want sex more... That didn't happen he was very upset lmao 😂😂

ha-ha yea my first pregnancy my ex didn't want to be around for my pregnancy or for my son after he was born lol but yes my first pregnancy I didn't want to be touched at all. @stephhhx3

@kiara459, his ph levels are either to high or to low. If you really want to figure it out they sell ph strips and you can test his semen then balance his diet accordingly

@marce88 thanks for that I'll try a little harder to get him to eat more vegetables. he hates them but I bet That's what it is.