So my husband's brother and his wife have been trying to get pregnant but my husband told me that his brother got checked and he's sterile. My hubby wants to start trying for another baby in 2016. I feel so bad that we have an almost 3 month old and are going to start trying next year to have another baby. I know his wife wants another baby bad he has not told his wife and she keeps going to the doctor thinking she's pregnant. I don't think we should have another one. My husband doesn't want his brother hating us. Just thought I'd vent that out since nobody knows besides my husband, his brother, and me.
@jennatess, that's what I keep telling my husband. They're getting married by the court this month. Then in March they're getting married by church. I don't think k we will be making it to that March wedding.
@andrew_nikolai2015, the truth will come out. Definitely. And if she finds out that he's known all along that he's unable to have children, then, shits-gonna-hit-the-fan.
@jennatess, he should have they've been trying for 3 months. She keeps going to the doctor because she starts to get "symptoms" but nothing she keeps getting negatives.
Don't let their lives halt yours. If you want another child, that's your choice. I feel bad for her... He should have told her months ago...
@swtlilangl, I do too. She's so in love with my little boy and you can tell she wants a baby so bad. She has 2 from a previous relationship but they are 4 and 5. She's going to get so hurt.
That's awful of him...eventually she will figure out its not her and that could be devastating to their relationship if she finds out he kept it from her...I feel really bad for her.
Is he going to tell her soon? That could be very bad for her emotional health to keep stressing over it.
@babygirl10-11, yeah I know that. We're still going to plan our 2nd baby. He's the one feeling a bit guilty
he should definitely tell her but never give up. my father was sterile when my mom got pregnant with me.